Sooooo I thought it would be nice to get all of my girls together for dinner and wine....and ugh it's turning into a mess.
FSIL who is a BM tells me I don't feel comfortable being around the rest of the bridal party at the this time. Pretty much because she's been causing stress and drama and headache to the point that me and my FH want her out....and she knows the rest of the bridal party does not like her.
Thennnnnn I get a phone call at 5:30 for an 8:00 dinner that one has to go to a wake in the city. You can't help death...but I'm sure you didnt just find out at 5:30 you had to go there...thanks for the notice!!! So pretty much I do not expect her to show.
One BM is in FL so we have to skype her in....so pretty much all of 2 BM will actually make it.
Ellynrose
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I'm so sorry - I totally understant where u r coming from and I only have 4 girls! I was totally thinking about making one of these post after everthing that has happened!
jgold910
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You guys are lucky you have that! I have BM's from Queens to Cali! So the fact that you can get any together is great!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jmrosa1
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Yea I am happy for the ones I can get here. Just slightly annoying the last minute cancellations or the comfort level from FSIL.
quirkybride
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I would try to work it out with fsil. She's going to be in the pic in the future and it could affect your relationship with the inlaws.
LKatz1029
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Posted by quirkybride
I would try to work it out with fsil. She's going to be in the pic in the future and it could affect your relationship with the inlaws.
agreed!!!!
Jmrosa1
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Posted by quirkybride
I would try to work it out with fsil. She's going to be in the pic in the future and it could affect your relationship with the inlaws.
agreed!!!!
He's going talk to her today....even his parents think it's best that she's not in it for the way she is acting...so every one is in agreement but no one knows how to deal with her due to her bratty ways. And she is grown. So we shall see what happens later when they talk.
She has two options....be in it 100% and contribute 100%...or step out and go as a guest.
rosatemp
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i know how you feel...i tried to get all mine to go see bridesmaids...needless to say it was me and 3 of my girls out of 7 girls...
ive given up on trying to get them all together to just hangout and bond and get to know eachother better...
im sorry that your going through this..it sucks trying to do a good thing sometimes
