BM vent...a little long

If I could get rid of one of my bm's, I would but its my sister. For her wedding, I went out to NJ to get the dresses, I even canceled plans with fh to go with her to a make up trial. I would think she would help me for my wedding. You girls have helped me more. We all set that on the 18th we'll go and order the dresses. I told her this week(Monday) that I'm not too sure about the 18th but I would let her know. I found out on Monday that moh lost her job. I don't want to ask moh right away if she could still be in the wedding. But I made the appointment anyway for the 18th. I let her know. She says she forgot about it and she made plans. She says she could change her plans if she had to but she would rather not change the plans. I swear, I could just blow my top. She has not helped me one bit. For my hair trial, she had to clean. SHe live 15 min away. I wasn't taking away her whole day. I even asked her to drop off her tiara so I had something to use. Did she of course not. I had a make up trial at the local mall this week, did she come of course not. My little sister has been more help. My sister knows I'm having a hard time finding a make up artist. You would think she would offer to help me. All she did was give me a list of people to call. She knows I don't have a car. I would think she would ask if I need a ride to one of the. I could just scream

Fh just heard me talking to my other sister about this. He's not happy at all. I see I have to put my foot down. I didn't think I would need to do this with my own sister.

I'm not going to let it get to me. Here my fh is out of work and he wanted to get me something for v-day...he got me a gift certificate to where I get my nails done. She could do things for me but doesn't. Guess you can't choose your family.

SOrry for the long vent

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Posted by DIJBH

You seem to have a good attitude about it, even though you are in a really bad situation. Just keep reminding yourself - it is about YOU and your sister cannot take away your joy!

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I agree with you 100%. She had her day. I think she's jealous. She even got offend that me and fh was standing next to a congradulations banner at her engagment party taking a pic. We where only engaged for about 2 weeks at that point. Until the pics came back, I didn't realize it. Even to hold my dress, she said let me just check with Steven(her husband).

I can totally relate!! (my MOH vent thread on Thursday!)...

IT ***** when SISTERS are not supportive, and actually HINDER the whole wedding process!!!!

I feel your pain

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Posted by Happybride2005

any suggestions how to handle her. i would like to ring her neck.lol anything without violence

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Hey- HB---- You call mine and set her straight, I'll call yours and do the same! just a suggestion!