BMs Ventt

they are pisssssing me off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i have been nothing but nice, accommodating and easy going with my bridal party

i am/was planning on letting them wear whatever dress they want in the same color, fabric, designer

2 of my BMs are out of state one in maryland, another in detroit

one BM will be in NY Dec 17
other will be in NY Dec 27

fine, annoying but I will go shopping twice with different sets of girls no big deal

i text BM for Dec 17- and shes like oh i have x y an z going on that weekend...meanwhile SHE was the one who suggested to me that we go that weekend bc its easier for her



I made plans, asked girls to take off that day to go now she is unsure

also unsure if shes doing hair, makeup unsure if she is staying at hotel

as are the rest of my BMs

I know its far away but I have to plan and figure things out...hair person requires 4 ppl day of! I need to know before i book her!

im sooooooooooo annoyed!

this process is such a pain!!

I'm 5 seconds away from being like here is the dress everyone go order it without anyone trying it on

I feel your pain....


'I have to find time' but you go party every weekend or go and get tattoos but you still have to 'find time'... I told my MoH I would pay for it upfront because I know she's going through some drama with her soon to be ex husband and christmas, she didnt really respond to that.....

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

I feel your pain....


'I have to find time' but you go party every weekend or go and get tattoos but you still have to 'find time'... I told my MoH I would pay for it upfront because I know she's going through some drama with her soon to be ex husband and christmas, she didnt really respond to that.....

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its just annoying when they were getting married...i agreed to everything...never said no, was always available

why can't i get the same in return??

especially when im not asking for much...it was both of THEIR ideas to go on those dates

now both are giving me a hard time and giving me stipulations, has to be THIS time and THIS location

just be NORMAL and NICE!

crashing .... sorry you're going through that ...

tell your BMs to go shopping on their own if they're being annoying ... they can text you a pic of the dress they choose right before they buy it

also, if your hair stylist needs 4 people, can't you just do yourself + your mom + grandma + one BM?

good luck!

yeah right now it is me, mom, grandma

so far all BMs responses where- 'i have no idea'

even after i explained to them the situation

I dont want to do a trial, love it and then find out I dont have enough girls to book ya know?

and as far them going on their own, I guess they could but it takes the fun out of it ya know?

thx for the advice

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Posted by LoveyDovey
and as far them going on their own, I guess they could but it takes the fun out of it ya know?

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doesn't sound like that much fun if they're stressing you out though ....

but yeah, i do know what you mean

ETA: i had Mya from Cosmetic Artistry do everyones' hair. She doesn't have a minimum ... $125 for the bride + $75 for each BM (or mom / grandma). She was really good and has a great personality. You could always try a trial with her

Sorry they are being such a pain!

I did that lol

I had my MOH try on a dress.. we both loved it..

So I told the other girls where to order it, how much, and that was that. No options.

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haha me too! i had my mom and my MOH try the dress on since they were diff shapes lol i liked it gave everyone the info where it was n how much n it was up to them to order it it was deffffffff nice just saying this is what it is =)

I told the girls that they have to let me know by January if they are getting their hair done. If they dont tell me, they dont use her. Of course they all said yes in about three seconds.

As far as the dresses, if she can't go then can she do it on her own without you? Or do you want to approve the dress?