I am sad to see that there has been some board drama with hurt feelings on the BHB boards..it's about a country club venue not being liked by all..I hope that doesn't happen anymore..just wanted to share..
AdriandSteve
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yeah.. someone mentioned this earlier. People don't tihnk before they write
Lsorrent
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I agree. Remember if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all
MrsC2010
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i agree that people shouldn't make nasty comments about vendors that could hurt some of the girls feelings. However, I do feel like we all have a right to say if we didn't like a vendor...we should be able to say what we feel...just do it in a respectful way.
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Posted by MrsC2010
i agree that people shouldn't make nasty comments about vendors that could hurt some of the girls feelings. However, I do feel like we all have a right to say if we didn't like a vendor...we should be able to say what we feel...just do it in a respectful way.
Well put
jayepyt
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is it still up
marrymybestfriend
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Posted by MrsC2010
i agree that people shouldn't make nasty comments about vendors that could hurt some of the girls feelings. However, I do feel like we all have a right to say if we didn't like a vendor...we should be able to say what we feel...just do it in a respectful way.
totally agree with this. it is so hard to give input sometimes, because sometimes what you say hurts feelings.
i know i'm a guy and all... but i have a big family, and all my friends are older and have been married. i have been to a ton of weddings, which means i have been to a ton of venues. i have an opinion on every single one. but i would never hurt someone's feelings by being brutally honest... unless they asked me directly, to be brutally honest. on a thread... if i didnt like the venue they were talking about... i would pass over it.
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Posted by Rosalind_75
Posted by MrsC2010
i agree that people shouldn't make nasty comments about vendors that could hurt some of the girls feelings. However, I do feel like we all have a right to say if we didn't like a vendor...we should be able to say what we feel...just do it in a respectful way.
Well put
ITA! people need to learn to be more tasteful with their words. they can be honest in their opinions but there's no need to be rude.
I read it too. So sad people can be so insensitive. I hope it doesn't happen anymore also.
Sandradv121
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The truth of the matter is, it does not matter where you get married, how much your wedding is, or who you are inviting. What matters is the fact that you are marrying your soul mate, your best friend, the person that makes you happy. People need to realize that and stop with the materialistic bullshyt.
JenBill61210
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yeah time and time again so many brides feelings get hurt when others bash on their RH... its like they do not think of other's feelings before they post!
marrymybestfriend
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Posted by Sandradv121
The truth of the matter is, it does not matter where you get married, how much your wedding is, or who you are inviting. What matters is the fact that you are marrying your soul mate, your best friend, the person that makes you happy. People need to realize that and stop with the materialistic bullshyt.
im sorry... did you say 'marry your bestfriend' ????
hehehehe
jayepyt
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Posted by Sandradv121
The truth of the matter is, it does not matter where you get married, how much your wedding is, or who you are inviting. What matters is the fact that you are marrying your soul mate, your best friend, the person that makes you happy. People need to realize that and stop with the materialistic bullshyt.
ita well put
Sandradv121
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Posted by marrymybestfriend
Posted by Sandradv121
The truth of the matter is, it does not matter where you get married, how much your wedding is, or who you are inviting. What matters is the fact that you are marrying your soul mate, your best friend, the person that makes you happy. People need to realize that and stop with the materialistic bullshyt.
im sorry... did you say 'marry your bestfriend' ????
hehehehe
word homie! a small little shout out lol
lori7570
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Yeah I was totally in the middle of that sh*t storm....just to clarify it was just the nasty comment that I was upset by....I totally was fine with the comments that were honest impressions of Crest Hollow (Jackie I'm really adressing that one to you...I totally respect your opinion!!!)
FallBride2010
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Yeah I was totally in the middle of that sh*t storm....just to clarify it was just the nasty comment that I was upset by....I totally was fine with the comments that were honest impressions of Crest Hollow (Jackie I'm really adressing that one to you...I totally respect your opinion!!!)
I agree...sharing constructivefeedback is great. But I dont think anyone can call an RH low end. Honestly, the term low end if very subjective. Someone else might think her RH is low end (I know it isnt, but just saying, it might be to someone else)
stinenandy2010
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Posted by FallBride2010
Posted by lori7570
Yeah I was totally in the middle of that sh*t storm....just to clarify it was just the nasty comment that I was upset by....I totally was fine with the comments that were honest impressions of Crest Hollow (Jackie I'm really adressing that one to you...I totally respect your opinion!!!)
I agree...sharing constructivefeedback is great. But I dont think anyone can call an RH low end. Honestly, the term low end if very subjective. Someone else might think her RH is low end (I know it isnt, but just saying, it might be to someone else)
your response to the thread was right on target - i appreciate constructive criticism but not someone just being down right rude!
and to be honest now some girl has a thread with the word nazi in the title, and that offends me, yes freedom of speech but have some respect!
Its2Snappy
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More board drama. This is why I need to keep the angry tofu. LOL.