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If/When you and FH have an argument is it typically about one thing?

For example... FH and I never fight about anything except chores.

I come home last night from work then school and he's been home for four hours. Sink is overflowing with dishes, the cabinet he was supposed to put together is not together, and his crap is everywhere....

so again we had the 'I do everything around here fight'

We are fine...we don;t go to bed angry so we worked it out...but come on now....lol

when we fight we fight about everything at the same time. no matter what started it we decide to get everything and anything involved. its pretty funny - we are both such over reacters and drama queens. we truly do belong together

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Posted by regy_k

when we fight we fight about everything at the same time. no matter what started it we decide to get everything and anything involved. its pretty funny - we are both such over reacters and drama queens. we truly do belong together

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Us too, we are both dramatic, people think we are nuts when we fight, but we mesh well together...

I have stopped fighting...I have learned that I get more with fh by asking nicely...Dont feel bad...when I come home after a 14 hour day sometimes fh is playing xbox while my apt is falling apart!

Yep! For the last year it has been about our living situation. I commute 2 hours a day because he bought a 2 family house in Nassau and I work in Suffolk. We (well more so me) want to come back to Suffolk because both of our families are here and both of our jobs are here but, he wants to wait until we can just rent out that house and buy another one in Suffolk. He never wants to sell the house. Its a great plan and will be worth it years from now, but its so frustrating sometimes. But, I know there is a method to his madness!

edited because I wanted to state that I am sorry this is a vent!

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Posted by Christine N Ralph

I have stopped fighting...I have learned that I get more with fh by asking nicely...Dont feel bad...when I come home after a 14 hour day sometimes fh is playing xbox while my apt is falling apart!

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it always starts with me asking and then FH says im jumping on him... that makes me axtually want to smother him...lol

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Posted by NanandEric08

Yep! For the last year it has been about our living situation. I commute 2 hours a day because he bought a 2 family house in Nassau and I work in Suffolk. We (well more so me) want to come back to Suffolk because both of our families are here and both of our jobs are here but, he wants to wait until we can just rent out that house and buy another one in Suffolk. He never wants to sell the house. Its a great plan and will be worth it years from now, but its so frustrating sometimes. But, I know there is a method to his madness!

edited because I wanted to state that I am sorry this is a vent!

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don't be sorry, mine was obviously a vent that i masked with a question...haha lol

We always fight about the same thing... the apt being messy... and it is always my fault!

I always make the excuse that b/c i commute and i wake up before him and get home after him I am always too tired to clean. I find security in the small pile of clothes accumulating on the floor next to my closet... no i dont feel like putting them away, even if away means moving them to the dry cleaning pile. yes FH is the one who brings the clothes to the dry cleaners, yes he also picks them up and puts them on the door to my closet, no I do not want to put them away.

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Posted by JillandJoe

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Posted by NanandEric08

Yep! For the last year it has been about our living situation. I commute 2 hours a day because he bought a 2 family house in Nassau and I work in Suffolk. We (well more so me) want to come back to Suffolk because both of our families are here and both of our jobs are here but, he wants to wait until we can just rent out that house and buy another one in Suffolk. He never wants to sell the house. Its a great plan and will be worth it years from now, but its so frustrating sometimes. But, I know there is a method to his madness!

edited because I wanted to state that I am sorry this is a vent!

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don't be sorry, mine was obviously a vent that i masked with a question...haha lol

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haha, thanks

we really do not aruge alot, but when we do, it is usually about the same things...never anything big...its usually annoying things and sometimes it turns into a long drawn out thing....lol

but we also try to NEVER go to bed angry at each other!!!

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Posted by JillandJoe

If/When you and FH have an argument is it typically about one thing?

For example... FH and I never fight about anything except chores.

I come home last night from work then school and he's been home for four hours. Sink is overflowing with dishes, the cabinet he was supposed to put together is not together, and his crap is everywhere....

so again we had the 'I do everything around here fight'

We are fine...we don;t go to bed angry so we worked it out...but come on now....lol

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This is exactly what we argue about!!! Never anything else... just chores!!! I get so frustrated. He travels every week for work and is always home ALL DAY Friday but doesn't do ANYTHING, he doesn't even unpack! It blows my mind.

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

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Posted by JillandJoe

If/When you and FH have an argument is it typically about one thing?

For example... FH and I never fight about anything except chores.

I come home last night from work then school and he's been home for four hours. Sink is overflowing with dishes, the cabinet he was supposed to put together is not together, and his crap is everywhere....

so again we had the 'I do everything around here fight'

We are fine...we don;t go to bed angry so we worked it out...but come on now....lol

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This is exactly what we argue about!!! Never anything else... just chores!!! I get so frustrated. He travels every week for work and is always home ALL DAY Friday but doesn't do ANYTHING, he doesn't even unpack! It blows my mind.

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my cabinets r laying on my kitchen floor and his clothes r in boxes....r these guys related?

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Posted by dreamerchic33

we really do not aruge alot, but when we do, it is usually about the same things...never anything big...its usually annoying things and sometimes it turns into a long drawn out thing....lol

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same exact here. usually its about him procastination with shyt