Bored, stressed and Venting

Why does Li log you off so quickly? is it just because i'm at work? On my computer at home i'm logged in all the time.

I wrote so much and because i was logged out it didn't save! grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Well I was venting about all my stresses with this wedding and future life. Who would have guessed that planning a wedding would be so overwhelming! All i've wanted to do from the start was get on a plane to Jamaica, bahamas, anywhere sun sand beach sounds soooooooo good. but FH says 'nooooooooo you'll regret not being able to have everyone there'. ok fine maybe he is right. but we have been looking since last october took a break and now its April and still no luck. why is this so hard?

On top of finding the right place stress, there's financial stress, and I'm thinking there are so many other things to put this money towards. For instance next year we will be moving, theres finding a place, furnishing the place. I have to find a good school for my son which will be going to high school by the way. I feel like there is just so much going on at once, where do i begin!!

Sorry for venting Ladies. i'm just ready to give up I don't know where else to look!

On another not man what a FANTASTIC day it is today!

Sorry you're stressing!

ETA: About the logging you out thing, have you clicked 'Keep me logged in'? You might have to do it more than once, I did, but now it automatically logs me in.

i'm sorry your stressed... maybe if you list out all the places your visited so far and tell us what you're looking for, we might be able to suggest something you'll love.

as for the login/out issue... i'm always logged in both at work at at home... maybe just make sure your settings haven't change?

I can't change the setting to keep me logged in because I delete everything I do everytime i leave the office. Guess i'll just have to deal with that problem. As for places i've seen. hmmmm I'll have to find another posting where i've listed them because right now i can't remember!

oh, lol.. yea.. that's prob why you constantly get logged out.. esp if you're deleting your internet cache every day..

maybe next time, you can type in word first, then copy it over? lol

yeah now i know! lol after typing all that I did and feeling so stressed out imagine just having it all deleted!!! I could have slammed this computer at the moment.

Anyhow here are the places i've seen

1.Jericho Terrace
2. Fox Hollow
3.Woodbury Country Club
4.Westbury Manor –
5.Swan Club
6. Greentree country club
7. VIP
8. Surf Club
9.Beckwith Pointe
10.The Riviera-
11.Larkfield -
12.Chateau La Mer
13. Crest Hollow Country Club - most know what happened wit them lol
14. Olde Mill inn
Not to mention ALL the places i've called.

Thinking about it now, They were all pretty nice. There was something I didn't like about each of them. Jericho was great but not much pic spots and i really wanted an outdoor ceremony. Some were either too far from my Fiances family or too snobby. (surf club) Crest was the only one i think I really felt like booking on the spot and not regretting it. But had issue with BM.

i want something outdoors, lots of green and some water, a nice area where we can have a great party and great pics. good food and GREAT BM'S!!

I've met some really nice BM's but haven't falling 'in love' with a place who has a great BM. I would love something on the beach but not necessary. I think all this time i've been trying to find a place that my out of town guest can walk into and not feel like they could have been to a similar place closer and more convienent. Knowing they have to travel i wanted to give them something worth traveling to. Am i being too picky?

why dont u try lands end--its on the beach.

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Posted by Bela

Thinking about it now, They were all pretty nice. There was something I didn't like about each of them. Jericho was great but not much pic spots and i really wanted an outdoor ceremony. Some were either too far from my Fiances family or too snobby. (surf club) Crest was the only one i think I really felt like booking on the spot and not regretting it. But had issue with BM.

i want something outdoors, lots of green and some water, a nice area where we can have a great party and great pics. good food and GREAT BM'S!!

I've met some really nice BM's but haven't falling 'in love' with a place who has a great BM. I would love something on the beach but not necessary. I think all this time i've been trying to find a place that my out of town guest can walk into and not feel like they could have been to a similar place closer and more convienent. Knowing they have to travel i wanted to give them something worth traveling to. Am i being too picky?

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Sorry your still feeling stressed Bela!! Things will work out. You are worrying about to many things. Make a pros and cons list of the top places you liked. This is what helped me. I wanted the outdoor ceremony, cocktail hr all of that but what if the weather is bad? Then what are you going to do?I went to Lands End and I loved it myself just wasn't in my budget unfortanetly. If you have any more questions just FM me and I will try and help you out!! I know this process is stressful but worry about one thing at a time. If you are moving next yr worry about that closer to then. You will need to book your hall soon if you are planning on getting married this yr or next bc places book pretty quickly!


HANG IN THERE!!!

Im sorry you are feeling so streesed out... Wedding planning can be very stressful especailly with some of the expericnces youve had with certain BMs. and i can understand how you feel like you just want to give up, but dont. You have seen a lot of beautiful places but let us know what some of the negatives were with the places and we will be able to help you. Thats what we are all here for!

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Posted by Bela

Thinking about it now, They were all pretty nice. There was something I didn't like about each of them. Jericho was great but not much pic spots and i really wanted an outdoor ceremony. Some were either too far from my Fiances family or too snobby. (surf club) Crest was the only one i think I really felt like booking on the spot and not regretting it. But had issue with BM.

i want something outdoors, lots of green and some water, a nice area where we can have a great party and great pics. good food and GREAT BM'S!!

I've met some really nice BM's but haven't falling 'in love' with a place who has a great BM. I would love something on the beach but not necessary. I think all this time i've been trying to find a place that my out of town guest can walk into and not feel like they could have been to a similar place closer and more convienent. Knowing they have to travel i wanted to give them something worth traveling to. Am i being too picky?

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I dont know where you are from but try Riviera at Massapequa, you can have the ceremony outdoors it has plenty of room with grass and is on the water

eta: wedding planning is very stressful but supposed to be fun at the same time. If you need any help Ill be more than happy to help you, now that most of my planning is done, I need someone to help!