I never thought I would be effectied by the BP Drama... so far everything was just running sooo smoothly... I helped them to save money in every aspect possible...I'm paying half for their hair... I found the cheapest dresses possible...only $130 each...I found super cheap FG dresses...50 each.. I got them swarvorski necklaces etc etc...
Well my sis and friend...which are my 2 MOHS are planning my bridal shower...My friend called up FSIL to say if you would like to help contribute money for it, that would be nice, BUT if you CAN NOT, then that's fine as well. Then to please help decorate and all that instead.
So my FSIL decided to flip out that I'm doing everything too EXTRAVAGANT and spending too much money on my wedding. C'mon... 130 and 35 for the hair and dress is too much money? ***?!?!? I'm sorry I'm taking a year to plan my wedding...not 2 months. I'm sorry I'm cutting corners to save money for all my girls. I told them my bridal shower can be at someones house to save money... but my MOHS wanted a nicer place... AUGH! Just me!
My FSIL texted me that she can't be in my wedding...then told me to talk to my MOH... that's where I got the story from. My FFIL told me that he's going to takl to her and that I shouldn't worry.... but HONESTLY....how am I not to?? That means I am supposed to pay for her dress... and will she take the FGs out as well..? I already spend over 500 on the 3 of them! ***?!?!?!
I needed to vent..>I'm totally freaking out right now!! My MOHs didn't even want to tell me what was going on b/c it was about my shower..
tonysbride09
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One thing that I have come to realize is that people are going to talk sh*t no matter what. If you were paying for their dresses and paying for their hair, someone would still find something to complain about. It seems that you have been very cost conscious. Its her loss if she doesn't want to be in the BP. Your wedding will be fantastic regardless.
Novia09
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Relax, Relate & Release..... I hope things work out!!
Dani777
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You girls are all too sweet...really...you are. I'm texting with her now... I told her that things just got misunderstood... she said that my MOH was telling her that she HAD to pay a certain amount fo rmy shower...but she didn't mean thtat...she said to pay what she can, and IF she can't then not to worry about it...ya know? I really hope that they can work it out...it's just a HUGE misunderstanding and they both a pizzed at eachother...
gina409
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oh dani im so sorry ..im sure ffil will tal 2 her and straighten things out..i m sure she will come around becuase she wont want to miss the wedding...people just get so crazy during a wedding when they have to spemd money n they dont realize how much the bride is spending on them...try to relax it will work out..please keep us posted
Dani777
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Thanks so much...it really means alot... FH says that she just 'gets like that from time to time'... wonderful! Least now I see how the rest of my LIFE will be...
Anyways... she texted me saying that she'll do the wedding thing for FH...so whatever. I'm done taking things personally... Soo... if she doesn't want to be in it for 'us' then so be it. I have too much going on in life to stress this out anymore. Thanks again girls for all your encouragement.
Sweeteey51
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She said your doing everything too extravagant because your having your shower at a nice place????She sounds like a hater!!!! You did everything you can to make it easier and shes deciding to be a b**ch anyway, cmon!!!. If she dont want to just leave her out and discuss with FH. Its not like your MOH said she HAS to contribute money. People dont understand i guess what it really means to be in someones wedding.
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All I can tell you is not to worry. It will work out in the end.
If she don't want to be in the bp then forget about her. You don't want someone like that upsetting you on your day.
It always works out in the end.
bride2binli
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aw honey I learned there is always 1 BM at least that causes drama..take a deep breathe and honestly, she will come around cause guess what she is the 1 who will look like an a**. What does FH say about this unnecesary drama????
EmiNoa628
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Wow... Some ppl are just inconsiderate... Trust me there will always be drama until you finally get married and you and FH move on..
Then they say we are the bridezillas when they acting like A&%^HOLES with us...
Just relax and find other methods to solve the problem.. Everything will be Ok..
