BP newsletter

no i dont think its bridezella of you i think its a great idea ... this is what i shoud do or should have done ... i already had problems with my BP about ordering dress ... alos when you say
cost of hair ( only for my side)
cost of make up ( only for my side)
--- only if they want it of course



what does that mean .. how much its going to cost you to get your hair done ... or how much it would cost them to get their hair done by your person ...

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by blu6385

no i dont think its bridezella of you i think its a great idea ... this is what i shoud do or should have done ... i already had problems with my BP about ordering dress ... alos when you say
cost of hair ( only for my side)
cost of make up ( only for my side)
--- only if they want it of course



what does that mean .. how much its going to cost you to get your hair done ... or how much it would cost them to get their hair done by your person ...

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oh it means like if they want to get their hair/ make up done at my house how much it would cost them. I am only offering this to my side bc i only want my family and close friends near me as i get ready. The girls in the BP that are on his side are on their own. I know this sounds mean but I get stressed out and I want the day to go smoothly and not be too hectic!

And you can still do it! I will post pictures after i give it to them - they already know they are in it this is just to put all the information in one place for them!

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oh i gotcha know he is having girls he wants in the BP ... ok now it makes sense ... and i cant wait to see pics!!!

i think this is a good idea (might steal it from you! ) BUT be careful of the way you word it because you don't want to come off as a bridezilla and sometimes when stuff is written down it doesn't sound the same as when it's spoken (as in it sometimes sounds a lot meaner on paper. )

So long as you can avoid that I think it's great!

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by irishsweetheart

i think this is a good idea (might steal it from you! ) BUT be careful of the way you word it because you don't want to come off as a bridezilla and sometimes when stuff is written down it doesn't sound the same as when it's spoken (as in it sometimes sounds a lot meaner on paper. )

So long as you can avoid that I think it's great!

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dont worry you will be proof reading it for me i am sure

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i thought so!

No, I think thats a great idea. I might have to steal it from you.

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Posted by ant n tilde

Okay so I am going to send out a BP newsletter to update everyone ( sorry to ruin the surprise, Jenn)

mostly bc i dont like confrontation and I would rather just write things down. I am going to include things like
cost of dress
cost of alterations
location of dress shop
date they have to order by (grossly exaggerated LOL)

cost of hair ( only for my side)
cost of make up ( only for my side)
--- only if they want it of course

basic stuff like that. But here is the deal - one of my Jr BM is 10, the FG is 6. . . i really HATE make up on girls that young. . . AND i HATE like big elaborate up do-s on little girls. . .my niece (FG - 8 yo) is not even getting her hair done and definitely no make up.

((Jenn you know this doesn't apply to Geena bc I know you and your mom would never let her wear anything that made her look old - you know what i am getting at here ))

Is it my place to state that - and if so, how would i go about doing that? You can tell me if that is being bridezilla.

They can get their hair done - I just don't want some like big trendy funky do . . .

Also - like i posted in another thread a while back my FSIL thinks that the FG is wearing a BRIDE's TIARA - so is it okay for me to say ;

FG hair: white headbands OR baby's breath simple hairstyles only.

Is this totally bridezilla? it sound worse now that i typed it out!

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well i know you are not talking about geena - my comment ahd nothing to do with that just one in general
i would have to disagree with you on the hair for little girls. when geena was like 3 she was a FG in my uncle's wedding and we had her hair put up - i thought she looked gorgeous! it wasnt like some huge elaborate thing, personally, i like the way it looks

i dont think they need to get their makeup done professionally - that would kind of be a waste - what do they never to cover up? lol