Ok, my B-party is this Saturday we aren't doing anythign crazy, we are doing dinner and than a lounge. Well one of them said she will do dinner but not come out after other BM said no to everything (my cousn who is married with kids). I understand my wedding is nto their priority but cmon your my BP and you can't go and celebrate with me??!!!
PegaLega
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Sorry that they arent coming-if it makes you feel a little better my MOH complained the WHOLE time...AND even called her bf to tell him she was miserable.
Try not to sweat it-you will have a good time with those that are going! You want me to come in their place
MF9282
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Awwww thanks Peggy!!!! Your the best!!!! I'm telling ya its not bridezilla its Bridesmaidezilla!
Winter07
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I wouldnt worry, just go out and have an awesome time! Some of my BP don't even want to come out at all... But its your day and you should have fun no matter what, dont let anyone ruin it!
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Don't sweat it--it's YOUR party, so have a good time and live it up. I had a BM who complained a good portion of the day (we did a Sex and the City tour during the day) that she could care less since she never watched the show.
People are such party poopers. Don't let them get you down.
diva7531
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Dont't let them ruin it, go have fun with those who want to be there!
lilqtpie2181
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one thing that ihave learned from this whole wedding process is that what goes around comes around. SOME of my BP has hardly helped me do anything and u knwo what...im not gonna beg. MY SIL, my 'koumbara' and 1 of my good friends have always offered and actually helped. But one day they will be in my shoes and theyw ill get the same treatment I got.. all is good int he end :o)
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Odds are you're not even going to notice that they're not around, and you probably won't be affected by complainers. Apparently one of my BMs was b*thcy the entire day, and I barely noticed. I couldn't have cared less because I was just having such a great time.
If they don't want to be there, you probably don't want them around anyway. And who knows, maybe after dinner she'll have a change of heart.
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Try not to stress too much. My MOH didn't want to come to my BP, I planned it myself. She's coming now but who knows how the day is going to go. I'm just planning on having a good time and a few drinks! LOL GL!!!!
MF9282
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My BP has not been helpful either, I say the same thing what goes around comes around!
stonepondbabe
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Try to just have a good time! If they don't want to be there, fine you wont' want them there anyway! My bridal party fought, complained about $ and hate each other since day one- and let me know about it. Just filing it away for when it's their turn....
PegaLega
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Posted by MF9282
Awwww thanks Peggy!!!! Your the best!!!! I'm telling ya its not bridezilla its Bridesmaidezilla!
I had THE worst BP ever! I should get a friggin award for what they put me thru...ok I take that back, my BP was wonderful...my MOH made me want to jump off a bridge!!!
Seriously, try not to sweat it-there are many things that go on in a BMs mind!! And if you really want me to come I will and Ill set them straight for ya
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aww, that stinks. Go out and have a good time and think of it as would you rather have someone there who is not happy or enjoy yourself with people who want to be there. It will be great, no worries!
SN2BMRSBURTE
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People are just rude!
nycerika318
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Go out and have a good time! I guess when you are having your wedding and need people to help you out, they really show their true colors, for better or for worse
I have learned a lot about people I thought I am close with during this process...
