Breakdown

Breakdown

Last night I had a nervous breakdown. Almost a month till my wedding and there is so much I have to do. Not to mention I have to get some more money together to pay it off. I am behind in more ways than one and I guess last night I just lost it.

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Completely understandable. The closer it gets the more stress you are going to feel, but it will be OK. You will get everything done and worst case scenario, you will be getting money one your wedding day so if you absolutely had to, you could use some of that. Good luck and try and relax.

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You are so close, you'll get there!

Just breathe and relax when you can

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BREATHE!!!! Every bride goes through this as the day gets closer. Everything will work out and your day will be beautiful! I totally understand, I'm 3 months away and started feeling the same way! I keep saying-'OMG, I'm going to be so broke for the next 3 months!!!' And why did I decide to do all these DIY's??!? In the end it will all be worth it!!

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I know how you feel. Sometimes you just have to take a break. Try to take this weekend (if you can) and not do any wedding related stuff. Maybe get a mani/pedi. Last month I went through the same thing and broke down. FH took me to Vegas where I turned my phone off for all four days and just had fun.

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I went through this for the last 2 days. I finally got over it this morning. Lack of sleep, compiled by FH family stress and me trying to watch my MOUTH-cuz I will curse somebody out -I didn't touch one thing on my list and it is stll looong. Just take your time and maybe step back for a moment. I know it's so close to the day and you feel the pressure to do everything NOW but just do what you have to do-it will fall in place.

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Make a list of what you need to get done and make a plan of attack. Then maybe there are things that other people can help you with ?! DH, my mom & one of my Bridesmaids was very helpful the last month of the wedding planning. Good Luck !

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sweetie it's okay! you'll be fine! just sit down and take a break! it's okay everyone needs one! (i should listen to my own advice!) vent if you need to, that's what we're here for!!!

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Thank you guys so much for everything. I spoke with my mom and she cheered me up too. This weekend I am going to make a productive weekend just so I feel better about things.

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This happens to a lot of brides! I have a break down once a month! It is so overwhelming! IT is all worth the money but it is a scarey thing!

Try to relax!!

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First off . I am in the smae boat and know exactly how you feel. It's at the point where FH can actually sense when I am beginning to lose it and he calms me down. FM me if you want to talk

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awww sweetie! I hear ya breathe breathe and hear are some huggies for you.., i hope things get better babe!