Bridal party difficulties

So I posted way long ago that I had a friend that I would have loved to have put in my BP my concern was she lives in Viginia and is trying to get preggo, SHe's one of those friends that will be there for everything no matter the cost or the strain on her own life. So I talked to her mom cause I close iwth her family and I asked her what she thought she said she woudl be honored and that she promises not to let her daughter get out of control!

So I'm makein her my matron of honor( right that's the married one?!) But with stipulations cause she's not allowed to stress her self ( fly or drive to NY for stuff) outwhile either having a young baby, or being an oven!!!

Sound good? I'm really excited cause I really wanted her to be in the party .....

I had a situation like that, but I have two maid of honors...
One of my friends I love to death and, I just couldnt not choose to be SOMETHING special in my wedding you know?
It was hard because I have a lot of friends, BUT only two who deserve that special title...

anyway one of them has been going through a rough patch but it seems like helping me and doing crafts for the wedding has made her LESS stressed! lol...

She will udnerstand, and see it your way<3