BRIDAL PARTY DRAMA!

Original post by CrescentBride606

Jul 19, 2005 01:18 AM

MY FH JUST DECIDED NOT TO PUT ONE OF MY BROTHERS ON HIS SIDE OF THE BRIDAL PARTY...BUT MY OTHER BROTHER IS IN IT..I ALSO HAVE HIS SISTER ON MY SIDE.....HOW DO YOU BRAKE THE NEWS TO THE ONE WHOS NOT IN IT? I FELL BAD

SINCE SO MANY OF YOU WANT TO KNOW THE FULL STORY...I PUT IT A FEW POSTS DOWN!

CrescentBride606 Posted: Jul 20, 2005 07:40 AM

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I GETS WORSE BY THE MINUTE AND MY FH AND ME DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....

curliegirl Posted: Jul 20, 2005 02:39 PM

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You have me completely confused, however, I still stand by my original post.

You can go on and on about their situation, it doesn't change the fact that he is still your brother, and if you want him in your BP, then he should be in it. It should have nothing to do with your FH and brother.

palebride Posted: Jul 20, 2005 03:08 PM

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30 years from now, the fight will most likely be resolved, but your brother will still not be in your wedding party pictures...somethig to think about....

Johnny&Maur Posted: Jul 20, 2005 03:11 PM

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Well now that i read this entire story...all i can say....is that it seems you will have to incorporate this brother in some other way aside from a groomsmen. I didn't realize there was such hatred between your FH and your brother.

I think its sad it has to come to that and maybe they can try to talk thing out for your sake!!?? But at this point, being your bro hates FH and vice versa I think its clear that he won't be a groomsmen...Until they can work things out like adults and put aside differences, its prob best to keep them separate for now. Good luck with everything.

MissingTheBGene Posted: Jul 20, 2005 03:46 PM

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I'm a little confused as well, but I agree that he may need to serve on your side of the BP. Not including him, I think still would be a mistake. Good luck!

Swan06 Posted: Jul 20, 2005 04:09 PM

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Honestly, tell your husband that it's important for you to have your brother in the bridal party. Ask him to be the bigger man. I automatically included my Fiance's siblings and it bothered me for while that he didn't mention having my brother as one of his groomsmen. I told my Fiance that it was important to me and that it would look bad that his siblings are in the bridal party and one of mines is not. He understood and I asked my brother that day. Which in retrospect, my Fiance should have. Good luck and I hope you find a solution!

Boop2704 Posted: Jul 20, 2005 04:17 PM

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I think you should bring them together and try to resolve everything regardless if your brother is in the wedding or not. They really need to clear the air. Otherwise it will keep lingering and not only will it make your wedding uncomfortable, but every holiday or special occasion after. I would bring them together and let them duke it out and settle everything so that you can be a family and not be put in the middle of everything having to choose. JMO. Good Luck!!