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Bridal Party Logistics for the dance

NYCGirl2008 Posted:

Bridal Party Logistics for the dance

I have 9 BMs and Fh has 7 GM.

Isn't there a dance where the BMs and GMs must dance?How do we do the dance???

Should we just tack on two extra GM. We can do this as I have 3 other brothers and FH has two other brothers plus a good friend he hasn't asked.

Do any of you have ushers in addition to GMs?

I am confused about logistics and need some help.
wifetobe Posted:

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then only dance they dance together is the first dance when the dj/band announces all the bridal party join the couple.

Usually when this happens the people without someone just have their date come ont he dance floor to join them.
Espo22 Posted:

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many weddings ive been to dont always make their bp dance together. Some do of course but its something you don't have to do

NYCGirl2008 Posted:

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Posted by wifetobe

then only dance they dance together is the first dance when the dj/band announces all the bridal party join the couple.

Usually when this happens the people without someone just have their date come ont he dance floor to join them.


Yeah I am not sure I want others dancing in the middle of our song, maybe I won't do it!
wifetobe Posted:

Re: Bridal Party Logistics for the dance


Posted by NYCGirl2008


Posted by wifetobe

then only dance they dance together is the first dance when the dj/band announces all the bridal party join the couple.

Usually when this happens the people without someone just have their date come ont he dance floor to join them.


Yeah I am not sure I want others dancing in the middle of our song, maybe I won't do it!




That's great.. then problem solved!!!
missliss Posted:

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Our BP joined us about 3/4 of the way through our song. Trust me, it feels like foreeeeeeeever that you're up there dancing just the two of you, we actually were thankful they joined us, though that's how we planned it anyway. We had 11 GMs and 6 BMs. The way I worked it is, 5 of the GMS just grabbed their wives and the rest of them paired off with the BMs, we coordinated who would dance with who in advance and the wives knew to be close to the dance floor (we asked them at the RD) so they could jump in real quick when the time came.

minibride08 Posted:

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We are doing our first dance just FH & I for the whole dance. Then, we are going to invite everyone up for the 2nd dance
NYCGirl2008 Posted:

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***Good call*** I guess if we do it we can have spouses step in.

Annoulak Posted:

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if 2 of your BM have husbands or boyfriends, then maybe you can ask those guys to dance with their ladies during the first dance...it'll be more comfortable for the ladies anyway, and no one's really going to notice that the men are not GM

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