Bridal Party Regrets

I would have definitely have waited.
Some of my choices were not wise ones!!

i only included family members BUT i wish i would have asked different ones. i asked one of my cousins to be a BM and her mother (my aunt) is super annoying and criticizing every decision im making ESPECIALLY about the BM dresses i picked

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Posted by AngnShaun

for some people sure... i have 11 guys and 10 girls and we havent had one problem

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I have about the same amt (11 on each side)!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so glad to find another Big BP Person!

I've had no issues other than one person dropping out due to finances and the rest of them declining to get hair & makeup done due to finances. But if they want to do it themselves, I have no problem with that!

regrets regrets regrets here!!

asked 2 childhood friends but have grown so far apart from them that when i see them its plain awkward

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Posted by LaraChris112008

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Posted by Iluvpoodles

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Posted by Diana508

I wish I had the same courage I'm kind of waiting to see if she's going to bow out b/c our friendship (or lack thereof) has changed so much.

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I have the exact same problem. How are you going about this? Just not keeping in touch with her hoping that she will step down.

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I'm in the same sitatuation as you girls Damnnn it...If only I wasn't so excited when I got engaged...I should have waited longer. I'm not a confrontational person so I would never ask someone to bow out but it's just gonna s*ck that this person will be in all of my pics when I know that our friendship will pretty much be done after the wedding

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I definitely agree. It's crazy how friendships change even though you never thought they would.

I have a hugeeee regret! The one person I had to ask kind of a damned if you did damned if you don't thing was my 'cousin'. To make a long story
short she was engaged to her highschool sweetheart they broke it off mutually . He has ever since gotten married and had a kid and she is still single. She spends her days criticizing everything from my ring, my wedding planning , bachelorette party you name it! I have been ignoring it but the other day I just got so upset and we were stuck in the same car for 3 hrs! I just dont know what to do anymore . She even admitted that she was hysterical crying after she found out i was engaged because ' Its what she always wanted it should have been her' ! Not a lifetime movie ladies, just my life!

I made the mistake when I got engaged that I just asked this one person, who was present when I got engaged, to be my Matron of Honor. We had been close friends and she was the reason I met FH, but over the years our friendship was hot and then cold....You know I was sooo happy that I didn't even think it through.

By the following day, I told FH 'I think I made a mistake.'
I demoted her to do something else during my wedding, but she hasn't really been in communication with me, so I wouldn't be surprised if she bows out.

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Posted by MissB

I have a hugeeee regret! The one person I had to ask kind of a damned if you did damned if you don't thing was my 'cousin'. To make a long story
short she was engaged to her highschool sweetheart they broke it off mutually . He has ever since gotten married and had a kid and she is still single. She spends her days criticizing everything from my ring, my wedding planning , bachelorette party you name it! I have been ignoring it but the other day I just got so upset and we were stuck in the same car for 3 hrs! I just dont know what to do anymore . She even admitted that she was hysterical crying after she found out i was engaged because ' Its what she always wanted it should have been her' ! Not a lifetime movie ladies, just my life!

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We ALL have drama!

It comes with the wedding so does ppl being jealous & having envy

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Posted by M_Berk-Glenn

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Posted by MissB

I have a hugeeee regret! The one person I had to ask kind of a damned if you did damned if you don't thing was my 'cousin'. To make a long story
short she was engaged to her highschool sweetheart they broke it off mutually . He has ever since gotten married and had a kid and she is still single. She spends her days criticizing everything from my ring, my wedding planning , bachelorette party you name it! I have been ignoring it but the other day I just got so upset and we were stuck in the same car for 3 hrs! I just dont know what to do anymore . She even admitted that she was hysterical crying after she found out i was engaged because ' Its what she always wanted it should have been her' ! Not a lifetime movie ladies, just my life!

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We ALL have drama!

It comes with the wedding so does ppl being jealous & having envy

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I know! Maybe they should make a reality show about that too lol

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Posted by MissB

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Posted by M_Berk-Glenn

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Posted by MissB

I have a hugeeee regret! The one person I had to ask kind of a damned if you did damned if you don't thing was my 'cousin'. To make a long story
short she was engaged to her highschool sweetheart they broke it off mutually . He has ever since gotten married and had a kid and she is still single. She spends her days criticizing everything from my ring, my wedding planning , bachelorette party you name it! I have been ignoring it but the other day I just got so upset and we were stuck in the same car for 3 hrs! I just dont know what to do anymore . She even admitted that she was hysterical crying after she found out i was engaged because ' Its what she always wanted it should have been her' ! Not a lifetime movie ladies, just my life!

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We ALL have drama!

It comes with the wedding so does ppl being jealous & having envy

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I know! Maybe they should make a reality show about that too lol

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There will be sooner or later...