bridal party!?!? REMOVED

GiannisWifey Posted: Aug 27, 2009 01:54 PM

bridal party!?!? REMOVED

PLEASE DONT QUOTE.....WILL BE TAKING THIS DOWN IN A BIT!!!!

THANKS LADIES!! Will keep you posted!

BriansWifey Posted: Aug 27, 2009 01:56 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

lmao. that takes balls. to automatically think ure in somebody's BM when u werent even asked.
if it comes up, id tell her politely that you don't mean to offend her or anything we already have our BP picked out, it's large as it is, and couldnt see adding more people to it.
good luck!

AngnShaun Posted: Aug 27, 2009 01:56 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

1. Make sure your sister doesnt tell her she told you... otherwise your stuck and you have to bring it up...

2. If your sis didnt say anything, then wouldnt bring it up... if she brings it up, then tell her that you arent adding any more bridesmaids...

Soon2bShea Posted: Aug 27, 2009 01:57 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

I had a similar situation with FSIL. It might be best to just avoid the topic until she brings it up to you directly. It's kinda awkward to be like 'oh just so you know, your not a BM, ok thanks' lol

Bride825 Posted: Aug 27, 2009 01:58 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

Posted by BriansWifey

lmao. that takes balls. to automatically think ure in somebody's BM when u werent even asked.
if it comes up, id tell her politely that you don't mean to offend her or anything we already have our BP picked out, it's large as it is, and couldnt see adding more people to it.
good luck!

ita...good luck

grkbarbie Posted: Aug 27, 2009 01:58 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Aug 27, 2009 01:59 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

Wow, thats really really nervy of her Unfortunately now you look the bad guy for having to set her straight...what BS.

I'd say, 'Don't worry, they definitely DON'T make my dress in maternity sizes!'

Uh how annoying!!!

Becca2010 Posted: Aug 27, 2009 02:00 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

WOW! I can't believe she said all that?? Were you in her wedding?? Even so, I'm not putting my [feels like always] preggo friend in my BP either... actually we're not talking, so it makes it soooo much easier to leave her out! HA!

Seriously, if they're older and have kids, it's a great excuse as to why they're not in it... You're thinking of her!!! It would totally be too much for her to handle.

**edited because I add unnecessary letters to words

marinai7 Posted: Aug 27, 2009 02:01 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

It boggles my mind how people just invite themselves to things, assume things they shouldn't and then make you feel bad that you have to tell them the truth. If she brings it up, I would just politely say that you can't add anyone else, that you already have more people than you were planning.

GiannisWifey Posted: Aug 27, 2009 02:02 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

I was in hers AND i was her Koumbara because she had nobody else to put - she really doesn't have any friends, which was why I think I was in it.....

who DOES that?? I hate people who invite themselves places and assume things.......***

StaceyWill Posted: Aug 27, 2009 02:03 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

I don't know why people just assume things!! If I were you, and she brings it up-just say that the BP is picked out already and it's waaaaay to big as it is...

grkbarbie Posted: Aug 27, 2009 02:04 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

lol HAROULA so far youve invited urself to midieval times on saturday and my bridal shower
bwahahah

love ya!! youre moree than welcome tho!!

KrisD72310 Posted: Aug 27, 2009 02:05 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

Ok so I have an idea. Set up your wedding website because in there you can list your bridal party. Then send the website to some family members, including her, to check it out. Then she'll clearly see she's not in the bridal party. Could work!

GiannisWifey Posted: Aug 27, 2009 02:06 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

Posted by grkbarbie

lol HAROULA so far youve invited urself to midieval times on saturday and my bridal shower
bwahahah

love ya!! youre moree than welcome tho!!

Bio tchhhhhhh don't forget I also invited myself to the G2G and your wedding also.......jeez get it right!!!!

MarjorieFrank Posted: Aug 27, 2009 02:19 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

LOL you are having so many problems with interfering family members!
Good Luck!

JAAMS Posted: Aug 27, 2009 03:35 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

Is it possible that she was joking? That sounds like more of a way of her trying to say that she's planning on having a baby than that she's planning on being in the BP

If she wasn't joking, then WHAT the eff!?!? 2 of FH's friends tried to invite themselves into the BP and then stopped SPEAKING to us when they found out they werent! people are NUTS

GiannisWifey Posted: Aug 27, 2009 03:40 PM

Re: bridal party!?!? REMOVED

thanks girls!

sassie_320 Posted: Aug 27, 2009 03:40 PM

Re: My cuz thinks shes in my bridal party!?!?

tell her..

'ohh girl... i wish i could but the wedding party is big enough... i just cant fit any girl in there'

if she gets stink... then tell her.... that its a bit rude to just assume that your in it... and explain to her that you've already pick ur girls...

some people!!!!