Bridal Shower

serendipity0680 Posted: May 14, 2005 05:43 PM

Bridal Shower

Ok, so my FI's cousin is getting married this July. The bride to be helped plan her own Bridal Shower & to top it all off she is having it on a Thurs. night. Wouldn't you rather have your Bridal shower be a total surprise?

glinda_goodwitch Posted: May 14, 2005 05:55 PM

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I would, but for me I have to know when it is since I am out of state. To make my parents feel better that I am getting married in NY, I promised I would have my shower in Boston. So, my MOH and one BM living in Boston will probably plan it, but since I have to travel to it, I have to know when it is. But in an ideal world, I'd like to be totally surprised.

july06bride Posted: May 14, 2005 09:03 PM

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I want to be surprised because if I wasnt I know I would be involved in the planning and frankly i have enough to worry about... sooooo I completely trust my mother and my moh
It will be beautiful and stress free since I wont have to worry about it...it will just happen

shellnroc Posted: May 14, 2005 09:09 PM

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I want to be surprised. I think it's fun to be. Everyone knows that they are getting a shower but I don't want to know when or where.

steflily Posted: May 14, 2005 09:14 PM

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I would like to be surprised. Although FH and thekids are sooo bad at it I will probably find out.

sarahbelle Posted: May 14, 2005 09:22 PM

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I definitely want to be surprised. I'm pretty easy to fool, so it shouldn't be too hard.

cjb88 Posted: May 14, 2005 10:34 PM

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I want to be suprised, but i'll probably do everything to figure out when it is...

Jen2999 Posted: May 14, 2005 10:53 PM

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I put unsure because I HATE surprises...I hate knowing something is going to happen but not when or where...

BUT I dont want to out anf out know. Id rather try to figure it out when it gets closer and 'guess' if ou know what I mean

Goldi1021 Posted: May 14, 2005 10:54 PM

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I usually HATE surprises - I have too much anxiety. But a shower would be nice as surprise.

Jen2999 Posted: May 14, 2005 10:54 PM

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ps.. also I will be givingmy mom an 'outfit' to have with her at my shower so that I dont show up in sweat pants LOL

serendipity0680 Posted: May 14, 2005 11:14 PM

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I want to totally be surprised!

beautyq115 Posted: May 14, 2005 11:56 PM

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Not sure because I want to make sure that I am wearing a nice outfit for it

SweetCin704 Posted: May 15, 2005 12:01 AM

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Definitely not, b/c I found people for at least 2 months (after invites go out) act strange & someone is bound to slip & it just seems like a lot of effort & work to hide a shower that the bride knows she is having (at some point).

For the 5 minutes it takes for everyone to yell surprise, is it really worth it?

diggity10 Posted: May 15, 2005 11:03 AM

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Mine isnt gonna be a surprise..I like planning things and my mom wants me to be happy and my sister will be away at school so she wont really be much help... So im sure Ill help my mom out, plus there are going to be like 80-90 women

cindyandkevin Posted: May 16, 2005 12:13 PM

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I told my mother before I was even engaged that when I got married I didn't want anything to do with planning my shower. I've always wanted a surprise party and never had one so this will be a great opportunity to have one! I get so excited, I can't wait even tho it's a year away!

kellwolfe Posted: May 16, 2005 12:14 PM

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I totally want mine to be a suprise ...I have dropped hints about things I think would be cool to have at it but I dont want to know.....

And I know my mother, she will have a new clothes for me she when i get there