so.. obviously im planning my own cuz A) im a control freak lol and B) my mom doesnt have a clue..
soo. im inviting ppl from work..the 3 women...
now my boss(male) is invited to the wedding.. i met his wife a few times, shes super sweet and ive known her since i was 16 when i 1st started working here(stopped for a few yrs and came back)..
do i invite her? i mean, she wil be sitting with the other women at the wedding..
my coworker says that i shouldnt..
what do you girls think?
i dont want to make my boss' wife feel uncomfy, even tho she wont.. and i wont be sad if sh doesnt come, but on the other hand.. if i dont invite her, and they talk at the wedding with my coworkers and i dont want her to be like 'uh, ***?'
what shoudl i do
Lsorrent
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I would. I know my shower is pretty much going to be any woman invited to the wedding is also invited to the shower.
Jenna_and_John
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I think you should, it sounds like a close enough relationship where you'd want her to be there.
T E R I
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I would invite her
runnerbride1023
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I am going to be devils advocate here and say no.
But it depends on the kind of shower you want. I do not want every woman at the wedding at my shower. Only family and close friends. If i was invite to FH's co-workers showers I would think it is really weird. Thats just me though.
PS- I am 'assisting' in planning my shower too. But my FMIL would die if she knew so i am telling my MOH and mom everything i want and she is taking care of it. I am too type A to let anyone else plan any component of my wedding.
soontobecruz
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I would. I mean what's one more person at the shower. If she doesn't feel comfortable going she won't. But just to save yourself the stress of wondering how she will feel just invite her
depoc1011
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i would invite her....
Jna2010
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i would... ur boss's wife is a def! if anything she just wont come, but i think you should at least extend the invite
20mrsc10
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i would invite her....
i agree
grkbarbie
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ty every1
stinenandy2010
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I would invite her.....if she feels uncomfortable then she probably won't go.
MayBride2010
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Posted by Lsorrent
I would. I know my shower is pretty much going to be any woman invited to the wedding is also invited to the shower.
ITA
Rosalind_75
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i planning mine with my moh/sister. i have to. she wants to do it at my house.lol
sh*t!!!!!! does this mean i need to invite my bosses wife? ive been here for almost 13years. i see and talk to her all the time!!!!!!!!
i have no idea what you should do. im going to need to think about this.lol
rocketsummer17
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I say invite her...if she doesnt feel comfy she wont come. But at least you extended the invite...
lori7570
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I would
TheLadyJ
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How about asking your boss if this is something she would like to attend?
I don't agree that EVERY woman who is invited to the wedding should be invited to the shower. Especially if your relationship is with the male person in the couple and you barely know the female.
Tell your boss you are inviting some female coworkers and would like to know if this is something his wife would be interested in or if she would feel uncomfortable.
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if ur close to her then yes, otherwise no she is your boss wife shower are fro close friends and family even if you r are inviting 3 other co-works, BUT if his wife also workers with you guys then you should invite her
bobchris1023
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I would invite her, I invite a bunch of my co workers and they are all married, I have met all of their wives too.
RitasEngaged
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if you met her a few times i don't see why not but why don't you ask your bosses opioion
grkbarbie
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lol nah im not asking his opinion..
thats like when i have ppl over and they ask 'want me to bring something?' lol uhh..erf. lol
