bridal shower advice

....i am the moh for my fsil wedding this october and me and my mom are throwing her a shower since her family is from china......

her and my brother live in Georgia and we are having the shower here in ny. Is it rude to ask for gifts sent to thier house and gift cards since they cant really take anything back w/ them on the plane???

How can I word that on the invites???

Not at all! My sister just had me do her FSIL's bridal shower invitations - her FSIL lives in Hawaii, but is having her shower here, so we included this separate registry card with the invitations: