I dont know cause my mom paid fo the whole thing. IMO I think that was ok cause they were doing everything else for me. It depends on your situation. Maybe they dont know and someone should ask them to offer anyway??? Like a mutual friend ?? Sorry you are upset.
snowcutie82
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i agree with the girls...traditionally the mob does not 'host' the shower and its left to the bridal party. that being said...i think its okay for the parents to help the girls (since they can be expensive unless hosted in a house). that way the girls can still 'host' the shower...but aren't necessarily left with limited funds.
in my case....fmil, my mom and my dad (my parents are divorced) said they would help with the $. unfortunately....my moh doesn't really believe in asking them for $ (although i know my mom is contributing for certain things...which is the same as asking her for $ but whatever).
although i sort of wish that we weren't following this tradition because i would have just liked for my parents to take care of the shower...it would make everything easier/better!!!!
Kerin2804
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It depends - My mom is paying for mine - and both of my sil mom's paid for their showers. For one of my girlfriends, we (the bridal party) paid for everything and we had it at my mom's house to save $$.
