was wondering, ray has two aunts and a grandmother that live out of state. i know they probably wouldn't come to the bridal shower...should i invite them for etiquette reasons? i don't want it to look rude like we're asking for gifts. they're immediate family so i was just wondering what the rules are? what about out of state people i think would want to go?
TIA!
randella
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yes- send an invite.
DMcK
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I would send an invite then ask FMIL or someone to let them know that you do not expect them to make the trip. I am sure they would be glad to be included.
divabride
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Going through the same problem myself. As per FMIL invite them because they will feel insulted if you dont.
jimmysgrl
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Yep-send away. A couple of change is worth not hurting anyone
j_dancer_44
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Yes def. send an invite. I am sending to all relatives that live out of state. They might even send a gift even if they don't come. My mom did when it was their showers and she was invited.
Milton
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Oh, definitely invite them! FH's grandmother flew up from Florida and his aunt down from Vermont for mine. I never would have thought they would. I can't imagine how it would have been taken if I hadn't invited them to the shower
AJsMommy122
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Yes definitely send it! Since its immediate family it doesn't look like you are asking for gifts. They would probably be insulted if they didn't get an invite.
