My MOH set the date of June 12, but it's the week before FH cousin's wedding and FH asked her not to do it that weekend because he didn't want to cause trouble and make it seem like I was trying to steal her thunder (which I would never ever do). So, my MOH (who lives in Syracuse) was not able to change the date because that date works best for everyone and now I come from the gym and FH tells me that my MOH won't change the date. Wow, thanks FH!
Would you be upset if you were the other bride? My attitude is that it's my wedding too, and I'm not the one who picked the shower date.
I really wanted my shower to be a surprise. I never went snooping around or stalked my registry!
cateydee
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no if i was the other bride, i wouldnt be mad. she's not the only person in the friggin world. boo to your FH
vickyp0o1215
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I would definitely be upset that the surprise is ruined!
If i were the other bride i wouldnt care bc she has a choice not to attend if its too much of a hassle.. its not like ppl wont come to her wedding bc of your shower.. its the other way around soo if nething u r missing out form the dates being so close
halfbaked
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I would absolutely not care!! Are you kidding? I can't believe he told you? FH was bad about telling me shower stuff, too.
FallBride2010
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so sorry he ruined the surprise!!
I wouldnt worry about the other bride. You didnt plan the shower...and it's the week before...not the day before : )
Lucky2010
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I'd be mad at FH! The other bride shouldn't have anything to be upset about especially since you (even though you know the date now) have nothing to do with the planning of your shower.
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aww that's messed up!! but dont' worry i know it sux now but the day off you'll have lots of fun!
TraceySLP1
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don't feel bad, its a week before, not like it's the day before
and try not to feel bad about the no surprise thing...i mean, everyone knows theyre getting a shower and u will have probably figured it out at some point, and then have to go thru the trouble of acting all surprised...lol
i was upset i had to find out about mine too (i work saturdays and my mom didn't realize that would be an issue when planning my shower and by the time she did she couldnt change the date, so i had to know to request off)
but now i just think....yay i don't have to act all surprised and i can make sure i look good for all the pics....even thinking of scheduling a hair/makeup trial for that day!)
u will have a wonderful time anyway, so smile :)
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sorry im crashing....
did you ever think maybe they are trying to throw you off??!! they could just be telllinggggg you its june 12th so youll be surprised when it really happens!
and no i wouldn't be mad, its not your wedding a week before hers, just a bridal shower!
Lsorrent
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That ***** if the surprise was ruined. But if I were the other bride, no I wouldn't be upset. It's not like your wedding is the week before.
Nina1010
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Sorry your surprise was ruined. Mine was too despite the effort put in by my BP. I wouldn't care if I was the other bride... most ppl don't have a choice in their shower dates anyway. These things happen.
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No biggie. She has no reason to get mad! You can't stop your life and revolve everything around other people. Its not like you're announcing your engagement or pregnancy at her wedding. Cuz THAT is f*d up and stealing someones thunder!
SoonToBeMrsCampos
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Posted by LoveyDovey
sorry im crashing....
did you ever think maybe they are trying to throw you off??!! they could just be telllinggggg you its june 12th so youll be surprised when it really happens!
and no i wouldn't be mad, its not your wedding a week before hers, just a bridal shower!
Oooh you're good! That'd be so cool!
Clover23
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no i would not be upset if i were the other bride. she doesn't OWN the calendar.
