Bridal Shower Problem...

soon2BMrsDee Posted: Jan 18, 2007 08:38 PM

Bridal Shower Problem...

Ok... so here's the deal, there are approximately 120 women that are invited to our wedding. Is it wrong not to invite ALL 120 women to the bridal shower? My MOH asked if there were any women that I 'wouldn't mind' not inviting... there ARE women that would have to travel very far (from California and Arizona) and I would feel bad inviting them to both... What's everyone else's opinion?

kitty1224 Posted: Jan 18, 2007 08:43 PM

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You don't invite all the women, you just invite the ones that you are close with. Family and your friends. BP and FH's family some not all. I would not invite people who live far away. Why do you feel bad?

AlmostKulak Posted: Jan 18, 2007 08:43 PM

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I would only invite those that are close friends and family, ones that have to travel too far I would not invite! 120 seems like way too many for a shower IMO!!

Meaghan729 Posted: Jan 18, 2007 08:44 PM

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you only invite the closest family/friends, not every woman.

im having about 175 people at my wedding, but only about 50 at my shower.

FutureMrsGK Posted: Jan 18, 2007 08:46 PM

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See Im different in this situation. For my shower I have already told my MOH to invited the out of town people to the shower only cause I dont want anyone to feel left out. Even if I know they wont come I still want them to have an invitation. But no invites are going to the people Ive never met yet.

FutureMrsGK Posted: Jan 18, 2007 08:47 PM

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By the way we're date twins!!!! Whoo HOO!!!!

PegaLega Posted: Jan 19, 2007 01:27 AM

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We are only inviting the ones that we are close too, close family and friends and the BP of course. You dont have to invite all of them

soon2BMrsDee Posted: Jan 20, 2007 10:57 AM

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Thanks so much for the advice... it makes sense not to invite everyone only the closest ones!! THANKS AGAIN!

NY031978 Posted: Jan 20, 2007 11:02 AM

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theres no reason to invite ppl in Cali and Az. You invite close family....and friends.

Tatum&Steve Posted: Jan 20, 2007 11:03 AM

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Posted by NY031978

theres no reason to invite ppl in Cali and Az. You invite close family....and friends.

Agreed

NY031978 Posted: Jan 20, 2007 11:05 AM

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

Posted by NY031978

theres no reason to invite ppl in Cali and Az. You invite close family....and friends.

Agreed

when dont u agree w. me?!?!

chellynyc Posted: Jan 20, 2007 11:44 AM

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You don't have to invite all the women that our invited to your wedding, I am just inviting family and close friends.

MattandTricia07 Posted: Jan 20, 2007 11:50 AM

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We are inviting the ones that are local and that I am close with

MF9282 Posted: Jan 20, 2007 12:03 PM

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Only invite ladies that you are close to or that Fh is close to, family, friends. Think about it some of the 120 you may not be close with, if you were them would you wanna go ??? Only close one's.
No feeling bad, your the bride!!

cmrcmr0430 Posted: Jan 20, 2007 12:04 PM

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I feel a BS should be for close friends and family. You really don't have to invite every woman that is invited to your wedding. And, Coworkers, should not be invited at all....unless you are good friends with them...just a FYI!