Ok I have a dilemma. My parents are both deceased and I feel really bad that the bridal party has to plan and spend all of this money on my shower. I told one of my BM's that I would give her the money for my shower because times are tough and I know all of my girls don't really have the money to spend. She was like 'no way, we are all of your best friends you gave so much to all of us at all of our weddings we will figure it out, there are 6 of us.' I however still feel guilty and was going to have FH try and figure out how to slip some money to them. But I am worry that I will offend them because my one BM got really upset at the thought of me contributing. Should I just let it be or should I try and find some way to give them money?
Golden
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Absolutely NOT! I think it's great that your friend told you no, that's how you know they are true friends. Let them be, if they need your help, they'll ask
grkbarbie
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this is YOUR time to receive. you have been giving all these years. seems to me that u have an awesoem group of friends. your time to thank them is at RD when you give them their gifts.
if u feel really bad, just keep telling them to do somethign simple.
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Posted by soontobebanny
Absolutely NOT! I think it's great that your friend told you no, that's how you know they are true friends. Let them be, if they need your help, they'll ask
ITA... Maybe it means even more to them to do it because your parents arent here to do it...
FutureMrsK10110
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You have great friends. If they need help financially they'd let you know.
MrsC2010
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don't feel guilty! they obviously want to throw the shower for you and are being great friends. let them pay and don't feel bad about it!
