Bridemaid Drama

jen919ifer Posted: Dec 04, 2008 08:10 PM

Bridemaid Drama

Anyone have a BM who constantly complains about money. If not it is soooooooo annoying, especially when you tried to UNDER DO EVERYTHING !!!

mimid15 Posted: Dec 04, 2008 08:14 PM

Re: Bridemaid Drama

My FSIL quit the wedding party bc of money...mind you I still havent even picked out BM dresses or asked her for a dime!

Mrs B to Be Posted: Dec 04, 2008 08:18 PM

Re: Bridemaid Drama

have you considered asking if she would like to step down from being in the BP? maybe she complains hoping you let her off the hook????

sorry you have to deal with this.....you shouldnt have to deal with this

jen919ifer Posted: Dec 04, 2008 08:18 PM

Re: Bridemaid Drama

I had to part with one already lol. But the funniest thing about it is she was asked a year and a half ago, and before I asked her I explained what goes into it since before I even got engaged she was like ohh I better be in your bridal party. I mean shes one of my BF so I would have asked her anyway but come on a year and a half ughhh don't need this stress with 3 and a half months to go. My poor maid of honor has been dealing with this the whole time

jen919ifer Posted: Dec 04, 2008 08:22 PM

Re: Bridemaid Drama

Posted by Mrs B to Be

have you considered asking if she would like to step down from being in the BP? maybe she complains hoping you let her off the hook????

sorry you have to deal with this.....you shouldnt have to deal with this

Well she is actually not speaking with the girl who I had to ask to step down b/c she didnt 'live up to her duties' , I just think she likes to complain.
My maid of honor got laid off a month ago and has not said a thing to me about money. She evn planned a 3 day getway to AC and a concert for the bachelorette party which this one particular girl thought was odd because she has never heard of a 3 day bachelorette party LOL, but I told her I would not be mad or offended if she couldn't come, so un-needed !!!