FH and I have been living together for a year. I planned on staying in my Mom's guest room the night before my wedding, but I just found out that my OOT sister, her husband, 2 kids and another OOT guest are staying at my Mother's too. When I asked her where we were all supposed to sleep, she said something to the effect of 'blowing up a whole bunch of air mattresses.' I just can't imagine getting a good night's sleep on an air mattress in a cramped apartment on the night before my wedding. What should I do? Should I risk it, sllep home and see FH on the morning of our wedding and then head over to my Mom's for hair and makeup, should I get a hotel room or should I ask FH to sleep out so that I can have the apartment to sleep in?
Any thoughts?
Thanks. Erin
vmystique33
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Im staying @ fmil's house but if I were you i would send him out lol
Captsarkasm
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In my opinion, I think it would be nicer if you didn't stay home with him..... We both live at fh's house but I am getting ready here....he is going to stay in a hotel the night before (maybe with his parents) but will definitely not be here. If I were you, I would just get the hotel room to avoid the air matress issue.
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I am staying at a hotel the night before. I really want to be with my mother & grandmother the mornig of but with the 3 of us getting ready, it'll be HECTIC!!! So my MOH will be staying in the hotel room the night before with me, and my godfather.
Snickers76
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thanks ladies...you are all so helpful!
diva7531
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Make sure your comfortable, either ask him to go somewhere. My FH is staying either at his mom's or a hotel. Spend the money and get a hotel room if you have to. Get a good night's sleep, you'll need it!
jjk1007
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My FH is staying at his best mans house the night before the wedding. Im definitely sending him out! I need my beauty sleep on our select comfort bed!
AlmostKulak
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I am probably going to a hotel with my mom, sis, & a few friends, one last girl's night together!!
milana
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i am staying at the hotel the night before with my sister b/c i need my beauty rest
gaccrrm
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I am staying at a hotel with my BM's.
Aug07OFCbride
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can you get a hotel room and have some of the bm's stay with you (thats what ill be doing)? otherwise id see if fh wouldnt mind letting you have the apt...you need to get better sleep than air mattress sleep. no fun
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i am staying at my moms and the nut just went out and bought a jennifer convertible sofa bed so she can sleep on it .. she said i can have her bed .. lol to funny to me ...
Marly
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I'm staying at my MOHs house......
SchmearandGoose
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I'd kick FH out!! Let him sleep at his parent's and you could get a good night sleep!!!!!
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babygirl71777
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im thinking on staying at a hotel just to make sure i get a great rest. if i do im staying alone so no one bothers me while i sleep lol im a light sleeper
poogie
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We have been living together for 6 six but for that night before I am staying at the Hampton Inn and dont plan on seeing him at all from Thursday night until Friday at the rehearsal dinner at 7 then not again until 4 pm on Saturday
HamptonsBride
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I am staying at our house, my BF is staying over with me & FH is sleeping at the hotel...he says I will be a psycho by that point freaking out about stuff...and wants to steer clear....haha....plus i am getting hair & makeup done here in the morning.
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We live in Westchester and are getting married pretty far out east, so staying at our place really isn't an option. I'm going to stay at a hotel with my MOH/sister and he's either going to stay with FILs or w/ his BM.
chrissyandvin
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I am sending my FH to his parents house to sleep that night!
Christys0925
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We are getting married out of town and staying in a cabin for our honeymoon, but checking in 2 days before the wedding. We are staying together the night before, just NO hanky panky.LOl I am getting up in the morning early . Meeting my mom at their hotel, going to breakfast, getting may nails done, then my hair. So I won't see him till the wedding.
