brides who live with fh

Original post by Snickers76

Mar 09, 2007 08:24 PM

FH and I have been living together for a year. I planned on staying in my Mom's guest room the night before my wedding, but I just found out that my OOT sister, her husband, 2 kids and another OOT guest are staying at my Mother's too. When I asked her where we were all supposed to sleep, she said something to the effect of 'blowing up a whole bunch of air mattresses.' I just can't imagine getting a good night's sleep on an air mattress in a cramped apartment on the night before my wedding. What should I do? Should I risk it, sllep home and see FH on the morning of our wedding and then head over to my Mom's for hair and makeup, should I get a hotel room or should I ask FH to sleep out so that I can have the apartment to sleep in?

Any thoughts?

Thanks.
Erin

GwynethBride Posted: Mar 09, 2007 11:27 PM

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send him out!

Future Mrs. Posted: Mar 09, 2007 11:32 PM

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treat yourself to a hotel room : )
Or....perhaps FH can sleep somewhere else?

Kaytea Posted: Mar 09, 2007 11:55 PM

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I had the same situation with my mom's place. It's too cramped to fit me too, with my OT relatives. So I got a suite for my whole bridal party, basically my last slumber party before i get married!! and my FH is there too.. I'd be too nervous to sleep and I can never fall asleep without him next to me. but the next morning, i'm off with the girls and wont see him till the actual ceremony.

but if you dont want to see your fiance the night before then treat yourself to a nice hotel room :)

PattyK Posted: Mar 10, 2007 12:00 AM

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FH & I decided that I will stay at the hotel next door to our RH the night before the wedding. We figured that it would be much easier for me, especially since 2 or 3 members of the bridal party are staying at the hotel the night before the wedding.

PegaLega Posted: Mar 10, 2007 12:07 AM

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We live together, and FH will be leaving to go get ready with the boys the night before and the girls will be staying with me at our apartment, at least this is so far what our plan is

afrodyt2000 Posted: Mar 10, 2007 12:19 AM

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I think if you can stay at your place and FH can go stay with his parents or something, that would be good. I'm sure you'd probably get the best sleep in your own bed.

SAMORY Posted: Mar 10, 2007 12:22 AM

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Go stay in a hotel with you bridal party. That's what I'm doing.

Mooshyboo Posted: Mar 10, 2007 08:05 AM

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I am staying in a hotel...

JIFFY Posted: Mar 10, 2007 09:07 AM

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I am staying at the house. My mom and my friend are staying over too.

He was supposed to stay at his Dad's but found out, like yourself that there will be lots of people there too so he is getting a hotel room and then driving to his dads that morning. The room he gets is the room we are staying in that night.

leafgirl Posted: Mar 10, 2007 09:16 AM

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Lol looks like I am the only one who refuses to have my fh go somewhere else the night before our wedding.
He's leaving in the am to head to the hotel where we are getting married to meet his family, who will already be there...
Is everyone really that superstitious????

afrodyt2000 Posted: Mar 10, 2007 09:55 AM

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Posted by kokopelia

Is everyone really that superstitious????

I'm not superstitious at all! we're taking pics at the church before the ceremony (including pics of Fh and I together). I'm staying with my mom because 1. we live in an apartment I hate so I would not want to get dressed here anyway much less have pics taken of this place and 2. my mom lives in a house and I know the pics will be better there and that's where the BMs will be meeting and the limo is coming to pick us up from there. I don't see the point of paying for a hotel room when mom's house is where I want to be. FH can stay wherever he wants, here at the apt. with his parents, I don't care.

cncoso Posted: Mar 10, 2007 10:03 AM

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FH is staying by his parents the night before, and I got a suite for me, mom & grandma the night before, and my BM will meet me in the morning. Then FH and I will stay there the our wedding night.