Bridesmaid problem resolved!
My Future in-laws both agreed that FH's older sister's demand to be a bridesmaid is silly. She has four boys (including her tiny twins that are the ring boys) to dress for the wedding. She just couldn't do it. I am sticking with my 4 orginal bridesmaids. My sister-MOH, FH's 28 year old sister, And FH's two teenage neices.
I will ask his older sister to do a special reading at the ceromony. I will explain to her honestly that I had not planned on having her as a bridesmaid and by asking her I would then need to ask my brother and his wife as well, to be fair. It's too complicated and im not asking women who have children, especially childen in my bridal party to be bridesmaids. If she feels offended or hurt then im sorry but I can't please everybody.
I will ask his older sister to do a special reading at the ceromony. I will explain to her honestly that I had not planned on having her as a bridesmaid and by asking her I would then need to ask my brother and his wife as well, to be fair. It's too complicated and im not asking women who have children, especially childen in my bridal party to be bridesmaids. If she feels offended or hurt then im sorry but I can't please everybody.
