I know that we are suppose to get our bridesmaids some sort of gift for being in the party. I have heard people doing gift bags or a special piece of jewlery. When it comes to hair, makeup and mani/pedi...who takes care of that? I really don't care how about make up and nails but I would like the girls to have the same hair.
My bridal party will pay for their hair, makeup and mani/pedi. If I had the money, I would have treated them. I may help pay for my MOH (my sis) and my flower girl. I will be purchasing them their accersories for the day, like their jewelry and handbags.
Im going to probably just get them DOJ. NOt sure I will be able to pay for their hair/ makeup, etc.
Posted by FallBride2010
Posted by Jna2010
Im getting them gifts and I'm paying for the hair/make up/nails....... i just feel like if i want them to be done up with similar hairstyles i think its only fair that I pay JMO
I agree with this...if you tell them how to do their hair, you should pay. : )
I'm planning on giving my BM's DOJ and a nice gift that they can keep, something not necessarily for the wedding. Maybe a nice coach bag or gift cards. My budget for gifts is 1000 dollars. But I have 9 BM's and a MOH
Posted by FutureMrsKuehne
Posted by FallBride2010
Posted by Jna2010
Im getting them gifts and I'm paying for the hair/make up/nails....... i just feel like if i want them to be done up with similar hairstyles i think its only fair that I pay JMO
I agree with this...if you tell them how to do their hair, you should pay. : )
this is what confuses me................i really want them to have similar hairstyles....my hair is going to be all down, really flowy loose curls, very sultry :) soooooo i really don't want any of my girls to have their hair all down too....half up half down, or all up is fine with me....
sooooo as long as i dont specify EXACTLY how i want their hair done, do u think its rude for me to say that it just CANT be all down??
cuz i def cant afford to pay for them to get it done (and i kno a couple of them will be willing to pay to get it done themselves anyway)
Posted by Jna2010
Posted by FutureMrsKuehne
Posted by FallBride2010
Posted by Jna2010
Im getting them gifts and I'm paying for the hair/make up/nails....... i just feel like if i want them to be done up with similar hairstyles i think its only fair that I pay JMO
I agree with this...if you tell them how to do their hair, you should pay. : )
this is what confuses me................i really want them to have similar hairstyles....my hair is going to be all down, really flowy loose curls, very sultry :) soooooo i really don't want any of my girls to have their hair all down too....half up half down, or all up is fine with me....
sooooo as long as i dont specify EXACTLY how i want their hair done, do u think its rude for me to say that it just CANT be all down??
cuz i def cant afford to pay for them to get it done (and i kno a couple of them will be willing to pay to get it done themselves anyway)
JMO but i feel like if i want them to get it professionally done (regardless of style) i'd feel kind obliged to pay for it, this is just how i feel and i dont think anyone expects you to pay, or at least most dont
Posted by FutureMrsKuehne
Posted by Jna2010
Posted by FutureMrsKuehne
Posted by FallBride2010
Posted by Jna2010
Im getting them gifts and I'm paying for the hair/make up/nails....... i just feel like if i want them to be done up with similar hairstyles i think its only fair that I pay JMO
I agree with this...if you tell them how to do their hair, you should pay. : )
this is what confuses me................i really want them to have similar hairstyles....my hair is going to be all down, really flowy loose curls, very sultry :) soooooo i really don't want any of my girls to have their hair all down too....half up half down, or all up is fine with me....
sooooo as long as i dont specify EXACTLY how i want their hair done, do u think its rude for me to say that it just CANT be all down??
cuz i def cant afford to pay for them to get it done (and i kno a couple of them will be willing to pay to get it done themselves anyway)
JMO but i feel like if i want them to get it professionally done (regardless of style) i'd feel kind obliged to pay for it, this is just how i feel and i dont think anyone expects you to pay, or at least most dont
right of course...i would feel that if i wanted them professionally done, i should be willing to pay for it, but since i can't, im hoping that at least saying what way i want it (as in NOT all down) should be ok...cuz then they can do their own hair half up or all up, or choose to get it done professionally
i jus kno that w/ 7 BMs and my MOH and 2 flower girls, im gonna be shellin out at least $1000 for them, so i cant start to offer hair for all those ppl too
