So..if you arent super close with your fsil do you feel like you have to have her as a bridesmaid b/c she is 'family' I am so anti but then a small part of me knows asking her is the right thing to do..I just really dont want to
melybee
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Well, if he had many sisters, then of course you should not pick all of them but i say just pick one! You will grow to love her (possibly?) I would think if you were not getting along, then 'eh' but If she is close to her brother, I would say that it is the polite thing to do (unless there is someone in youir life that TRULY deserves that spot) because it is his wedding too. I added my fiance's sister because he adores her to death and i love her very much but even if she and i were not close, she would still be in it because it will make him super happy to see her standing there beside us. Everyone's comments seem pretty helpful, so i am sure you will do whats right for you and the fiance! Good luck! enjoy the ride!
Jennielee15
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I think its up to your FH. My brother is in our wedding because I wanted him! If its his sister and he is super close with her then you should ask her.
TeAmoChris
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I think you should, she will be a big part of your life and once kids are involved and your looking back at your pictures, don't you want your husbands sister to be in them?
FutureMrsPanuch
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ITA with what everyone has said... Me, i have always been very close to FSIL, even before FH and I started dating so she is my MOH. Even if i wasnt really close with her i prob. would have asked her to be in the BP.
CantWait2Wed
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I didn't know my FSIL too well when I asked her to be in my party. I knew we got along and that she is NOT a drama queen so I wanted her to be involved to bring us closer and I am happy to report that things are going as planned. She really is great
JandS
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My fh has 2 sisters and honestly, we don't get along. I don't mind that we don't get along and FH doesn't care if they are in it or not. Fh wasn't invited to be part of his own sister's wedding! I have two brothers and I want them up there that day so I felt obligated to invite fsils. They were shocked when I asked and honestly, the relationship is getting better and I guess it's because now we have a common thing to talk about. Hth!
