Is this necessary? Some people say yes, some say no. It's really not something I can afford right now. Thoughts?
Totally not necessary. It's a nice touch, but no one expects it.
Posted by FutureMrsJC
Totally not necessary. It's a nice touch, but no one expects it.
Posted by FutureMrsJC
Totally not necessary. It's a nice touch, but no one expects it.
i cant afford it either im thinking of asking my sister if she wouldnt mind hosting a really small bbq the day after just us, my parent and my sibilings. i just want to do something for my parents as a thank you. i figure FH can grill and i'll make salads. hopefully its not too cold out.
def not necessary! We're having one but I don't think you have to
Especially not nessecary if the bride/groom are paying all themselves or if ONLY the brides family is paying for the wedding
def not necessary. FMIL is having one b/c a lot of their guests are OOT.
My FILs are throwing us a brunch at the hotel the day after! We were NOT going to do it ourselves and figured people could fend for themselves!
Posted by pjc92980
i originally thought it was a nice gesture but not necessary...however i have already had multiple comments from people saying if we stay at the hotel, you will be having a brunch for us, right?
so apparently people do expect it...
Noone expects it, but my mom is hosting something for all of our OOT peeps
