Bye for a bit...UPDATE***

SugaBeans Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:12 PM

Bye for a bit...UPDATE***

well I mentioned a week ago that FH's grandfather wasnt doing good in FL. Well he called me today and told me that they took him off of all his life support. He knows he's going to die and refused to die in the hospital. He begged FH's grandmother to take him home. She did and now the dr. said he only has 3-7 days to live. all of his vital organs are shutting down. we are hopping on a flight at 8:00 am tomorrow to go and see him and to say our goodbyes. this is so hard but he finally let his emotions out! It;s been a day filled with crying and the rest of the week will be the same Im sure. Wish me luck!

update on page 2

RGV07 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:14 PM

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so sorry you are goin through this, hugs and prayer to you and fh family

Princess Cut Bride Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:15 PM

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Marissa I am so sorry for you and FH. I hope you have a safe flight and get to spend some time with FH's Grandfather.

Fh is glad to have you by his side.

jjk1007 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:15 PM

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Im so sorry.

Jesses Girl Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:15 PM

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awww good luck. i know how hard it is for our fh's to lose someone close to them....ur being awesome for being there for him. it is sad but at least he knows he is going(grandfather) and he doesnt have to be afraid.

just take it easy and im sorry this week is going to be like this... ill say a prayer

FishNBun08 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:15 PM

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i'm so sorry! good luck with everything

ant n tilde Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:15 PM

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karen6474 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:17 PM

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i'm soooo sorry!!!!

SugaBeans Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:17 PM

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its just hard bc what am I supposed to do? Knowing he's going die, how do you act? what am I supposed to say to him? Im afraid of what i am going to see and experience while Im there. I told fh that i will go to be with him but i am afraid, but i guess I have to grow up and deal with it sooner or later. i just wish it was later. he;s so upset that grandpa wont be at the wedding.

angl2001 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:18 PM

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good luck sweetie i am so sorry!! you will be in our thoughts! have a safe trip!

Mrs. V 2008 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:19 PM

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I am so sorry...My thoughts and prayers are with your and your family

wifey08 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:21 PM

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SugaBeans Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:24 PM

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thanks girls for all the support!

wifey08 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:39 PM

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Posted by SugaBeans

its just hard bc what am I supposed to do? Knowing he's going die, how do you act? what am I supposed to say to him? Im afraid of what i am going to see and experience while Im there. I told fh that i will go to be with him but i am afraid, but i guess I have to grow up and deal with it sooner or later. i just wish it was later. he;s so upset that grandpa wont be at the wedding.

thats so hard i am sorry you have to deal with this!! all you can do is just be there for your FH and family its tough espically watching him go....i couldnt imagine that