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Calling all Catholic Church Brides

Jenn040381 Posted:

Calling all Catholic Church Brides

I need to change my ceremony time up a half hour. My priest is very adamant about not starting any wedding until 3:30. Have any other brides past or future encountered the same problem?

Kara and Todd Posted:

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Edited b/c I htought you meant he wouldn't start AFTER 3:30. That's odd. I didn't encounter that problem at all.

Good luck!

Most parishes won't do any ceremonies after that time b/c of Saturday evening mass.
chellynyc Posted:

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I ran into a similar situation, on Saturday's my church will only do weddings at 1:00 or 2:30......because they have 5:00 mass and have confessions the hour prior to mass....I chose the 2:30 slot and know that come 4:00 (when we should already be outside and getting ready to leave) ppl. will be coming for confessions.

MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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I'm getting married on a Friday and we still don't have our start time set exactly, but I believe you may have an issue of not starting before 3:30 because there may be confession at an earlier time, etc. Do you think you could ask the priest why he won't do it earlier? It might help if he gave you a reason instead of just saying no.

Jenn040381 Posted:

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Thank you for the advice. I was just concerned about asking the priest to change anything, b/c I didn't want him to think I was planning everything around the reception. I thought the church would get a litlle offended.

ali120206 Posted:

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It doesn't hurt to ask but, many churches are pretty set on their wedding times based on other things that are going on in the church.

DandS Posted:

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Posted by ali120206

It doesn't hurt to ask but, many churches are pretty set on their wedding times based on other things that are going on in the church.



I agree, however it definitely won't hurt to ask.
carlsbride Posted:

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They might leave the time slots prior to 3:30 open for funerals. Of course at this point they don't know whether or not there will be one that day. That could be a reason why they don't want to schedule something prior to 3:30, but it never hurts to ask. Good Luck.

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