Calling off the wedding

I am so sorry you have to go through this!! My thoughts and prayers are with you! Take some time to really think about what is happening and what is meant to be.....will be!

sweetie i was with a guy yrs ago who tried to change everything about me what i wore, what i ate , what i drank, everything you name it, then 2 mos. before the big date i admitted to myself how miserable i was, and that he was trying to mold me in to his lil stepford wife, well i went to him gave him my dress and told him to go to hell. it was hard but worth it, and guess who still alone and its not me, hon, you half to be yourself, if he dont love you for that he never will, and you deserve soo much more, and about the dresses, i am sure they all love you and will understand. if you need to talk in private my fm is here for you. lots of hugs and prayers sent your way.

Thank you everyone for your support it really means a lot that I could come on not even say who I was and receive so many comforting words on this thread & FMs from all you amazing women thanks

We have decided to work on the issue and this is just a storm we'll overcome... I think it's just a lot of stress that the wedding is approaching so suddenly, and work stress, as well as unwelcome family drama, some that could be controlled and some that can't.

I feel foolish for taking the bluff as truth, and allowing myself to become such a mess, when it was a mere tactic to have me change something, that really doesn;t even matter to FH...

I guess deep down I knew it couldn't;t really be true, hence not posting as my normal sn, but I was still so hurt and confused, and not knowing where to turn, since I didn't want to unessersarily upset my mom or anyone knowing about it if it was going to work itself out. I needed to get it out, and prepare since I thought I may have to tell my family, & friends... Anyway thank you for being there

Oh gooooood! I was actually going to send you an FM to see if there had been a resolution! YAY.

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Posted by calleditoff

Thank you everyone for your support it really means a lot that I could come on not even say who I was and receive so many comforting words on this thread & FMs from all you amazing women thanks

We have decided to work on the issue and this is just a storm we'll overcome... I think it's just a lot of stress that the wedding is approaching so suddenly, and work stress, as well as unwelcome family drama, some that could be controlled and some that can't.

I feel foolish for taking the bluff as truth, and allowing myself to become such a mess, when it was a mere tactic to have me change something, that really doesn;t even matter to FH...

I guess deep down I knew it couldn't;t really be true, hence not posting as my normal sn, but I was still so hurt and confused, and not knowing where to turn, since I didn't want to unessersarily upset my mom or anyone knowing about it if it was going to work itself out. I needed to get it out, and prepare since I thought I may have to tell my family, & friends... Anyway thank you for being there

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YAY SO HAPPY to hear you were able to work things out. This can make your relationship stronger now, since so much has been put out in the open and you can get to the root of your problem and start coming up with solutions, you'll be surprised.

Yay! I'm glad to hear it!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by calleditoff

Thank you everyone for your support it really means a lot that I could come on not even say who I was and receive so many comforting words on this thread & FMs from all you amazing women thanks

We have decided to work on the issue and this is just a storm we'll overcome... I think it's just a lot of stress that the wedding is approaching so suddenly, and work stress, as well as unwelcome family drama, some that could be controlled and some that can't.

I feel foolish for taking the bluff as truth, and allowing myself to become such a mess, when it was a mere tactic to have me change something, that really doesn;t even matter to FH...

I guess deep down I knew it couldn't;t really be true, hence not posting as my normal sn, but I was still so hurt and confused, and not knowing where to turn, since I didn't want to unessersarily upset my mom or anyone knowing about it if it was going to work itself out. I needed to get it out, and prepare since I thought I may have to tell my family, & friends... Anyway thank you for being there

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YAY SO HAPPY to hear you were able to work things out. This can make your relationship stronger now, since so much has been put out in the open and you can get to the root of your problem and start coming up with solutions, you'll be surprised.

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oops i mustve missed your updated post- good for you! good luck!

so glad to hear you will work through this!

So happy that you were able to worl it out. Please if you ever need to talk FM me

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Posted by calleditoff

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Posted by angl2001

i think i know who you are cause of something i saw on myspace............i hope things work out if you need to talk FM me....even if this isnt who i think you are feel free to talk to me if you need to vent!! I am so sorry

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what did I put on myspace? FM me please?

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sorry thought you were someone else

Congrats!!!!!
what great news!! I am glad that you are going to work through this!

Takes alot of love to work things through. I wish you the best!!!
Now back to planning!

Im so sorry!!!

I am so happy for you!! I think must of us forget that this is supposed to be the happiest time of our lives. I know there is lots of planning that needs to happen but regardless, the day will be BEAUTIFUL no matter what!!!! We should all take a deep breadth when times get stressful. It's not worth being miserable.

This is great to hear!!! Glad things are ok.
Good luck to you!!!

thats AWESOME news!!!!!!!

i'm soooo glad you guys were able to work things out~