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Came home to a surprise

Im getting Married Posted:

Came home to a surprise

FH met me at the door and hands me an envelope from a friend of his that couldn't make the wedding....beautiful card a check.


Now does he get 2 thank you cards...one now and one when we get our after the wedding?

TIA
itbroi805 Posted:

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not sure if this is etiquette or not, but I would just send it after the wedding.

Im getting Married Posted:

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Posted by itbroi805

not sure if this is etiquette or not, but I would just send it after the wedding.



Yeah I think your right..we are only 22 days away..I think I will have Fh call him so I can thank him
rosatemp Posted:

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Just send one after the wedding

SME418 Posted:

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Agree...just one. If your wedding was further away I would consider sending it before but I think a call from FH is nice until he gets the Wedding Thank you

rxgirl985 Posted:

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Prob just send it after the wedding since it's coming up!

TheFutureMrs2011 Posted:

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Yeah I agree.. wait till wedding thank yous go out to send.. FH could call and thank him informally. For my shower, I received a lot of gifts before it (I didn't know when it was) so I just sent a text email or called the person thanking them, and then I will write them a thank you card like everyone else

cait625 Posted:

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Posted by TheFutureMrs2011

Yeah I agree.. wait till wedding thank yous go out to send.. FH could call and thank him informally. For my shower, I received a lot of gifts before it (I didn't know when it was) so I just sent a text email or called the person thanking them, and then I will write them a thank you card like everyone else




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mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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informal thanks now so that they know you got it, followed by the thank you card after the wedding :)

I came home to the pair of spanx I ordered. I like your surprise better
FutureMRS.Benn Posted:

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We waited to deposit all checks we got before the wedding till we got back from the honeymoon. We didn't want the guests that could not make our big day to think we used the money to pay for our wedding. I would wait to send the Thank You until after you guys are 'Man and Wife'
Moonmist09 Posted:

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i would only send 1 thank you card, after the wedding, with everyone else

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