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nenna023 Posted: Oct 29, 2004 08:32 PM+

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Posted: Oct 29, 2004 08:32 PM

Can a jewish bride have.....

The rose and hand saying during the ceremony?? I love it so much and we are having a jewish wedding. I dont know if this is allowed ( i converted for my FH so i know nothing when it comes to this!)

sun86moon Posted: Oct 29, 2004 09:14 PM+

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Posted: Oct 29, 2004 09:14 PM

Re: Can a jewish bride have.....

Hi, I am a (former) Jewish bride and in order to help answer your question I would need to know what the rose and hand ceremony was in the first place. Also, the rabbi marrying you will give you the best answer, which will be what he will allow or not allow.

randella Posted: Oct 29, 2004 09:22 PM+

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Posted: Oct 29, 2004 09:22 PM

Re: Can a jewish bride have.....

I think that you can do anything you wish... How open is your rabbi?? That would be a better question for him or her.

Nora101004 Posted: Oct 30, 2004 07:42 PM+

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Posted: Oct 30, 2004 07:42 PM

Re: Can a jewish bride have.....

I liked the hand ceremony too, DH thought our ceremony was too long anyway. So I had my mom read it as sort of a 'toast' before our dance.

He didn't even know!

Its one way to get around the rabbi if he doesn't allow it at the ceremony. Have someone read it at the reception.