Can I have hugs please?

Hi... I can totally understand why your stressing. I'm so sure that every bride goes through this before her wedding. I really think that we all (as brides) are way to hard on ourselves. Its impossible to ensure that everything will go perfect.. talk to any of the past brides and they will tell you. There are just some things that are way out of your control, so why even stress over something that you cant change? Like Jess said, your MOH & BM dont really have any control over anything vital. Your vendors do, and belive me, they are professionals, so this is there LIFE!!

I have no doubts that everything will fall into place the day of your wedding. It always does. And if something DOES go wrong, Oh well.. In the end, you have to remember why you are having this affair in the first place-because you found your soul mate and you two are in LOVE!! Everyone at your wedding is there to celebrate the union of both of you.

Please remember.. theres always something that will go wrong. Please dont wake up the morning of your wedding & unrealistically high expectations. Hope for the best.. expect the worst, therefore if something DOES go wrong, you are prepared for it. You spent a year planning for this day.. the most important thing is to ENJOY IT!!!

You love Dan, He loves you.. and besides that.. You will be on your honeymoon soon after the wedding, so please try to relax!!!

Melissa, you have put so much hard work and effort into this wedding. It is going to be a beautiful day regardless of what happens. Just remember that you liked your ideas/plans in the first place. I know it's easier said than done, but try to relax and enjoy these last few days. You know I am here for you if you need me

I think that is completely normal. I had gone thru that too w/ my dress. You spent SO much time getting ready and planning this big day and its only natural to worry if its all going to be right. I bet you did an amazing joba dn its going to be GREAT!!! Youll see!!!

Things only have to be 'good enough' for you and FH. There is not one other person that will be present whose opinion matters.

You have taken the time to carefully select the professionals who will be taking care of food, flower, music, photography etc. I'm sure you did your research, and they will all be the professionals you hired them to be and do things the way you have asked them to be done.

If your mom, his mom, either set of siblings etc don't like anything that is their problem. This day is not about them - it is about you and your FH, and the moment of becoming husband and wife - the rest is just a party. As we all know, not everyone enjoys a party. Some are wallflowers, some are just people that don't know how to have fun.

The key is for you to savor the ceremony, and enjoy the reception, and the heck with everyone else.

i can relate!!

I just wanted to say thanks again to everyone

in a few days you just need to breath and let it go.....I am sure you will have the best wedding ever. And everything will work out right. Go for a massage so you can relax :):)

You know you can ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS vent on here! And we care about your wedding...and we know your care about our weddings..we love you!!

And you can always FM me