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Can I have some..

Original post by bettybcafe

hugs... My mom and I have been arguing and fighting constantly (sometimes about things not even related to the wedding) she just left the house and told my father that she needs some air. She never does this....she never leaves the house at 8pm...its because we just had an argument over the stupidist thing!!....I dont know what to do anymore...I feel like crying....
poogie Posted:

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those are the worst when you cant figure out what the fight was really about....
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by bonitachyc

yeah definitely latina! that's totally bizarre. everyone on LIW must be like because of a TV SHOW!? how about next time you're about to get into the next argument you say 'alright mami, one more peep out of you and that's it! this wedding is kaput, do you hear me!?'

**how fast do you think the chancleta will come flying your way??**

OMG! ur tooo funny!
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by nycgirl79

I'm sorry you guys have been getting into it. They can be pains in the a$$, can't they!! Let your mom cool down...it was probably a good idea for her to get out for a bit. Just keep reminding yourself that she loves you.
Everyone handles stress differently, and it sounds like your when your mom is stressed she gets argumentative. Believe me, I totally understand - my mom does the same thing! Whenever she's stressed or worried, she picks fights with me. Just try to diffuse the situation as much as possible. I know it's A LOT easier said than done, but just try to bite your tongue if you know she's just looking to argue. I should take my own advice!

It will be hard...but Im going to def. have to bit my tougne next time..(which Im sure there will be a next time)
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FullersBride Posted:

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Posted by bettybcafe


Posted by bonitachyc

yeah definitely latina! that's totally bizarre. everyone on LIW must be like because of a TV SHOW!? how about next time you're about to get into the next argument you say 'alright mami, one more peep out of you and that's it! this wedding is kaput, do you hear me!?'

**how fast do you think the chancleta will come flying your way??**

OMG! ur tooo funny!




cuidado con las zapatillas y chancletas, ay!!!
znycgirl Posted:

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Have a drink.
It'll be OK.
Think about all those other times.
It blows over.

Me & my moms last fight wasn't too long ago: but the good thing is you will completely forget about it in a short while.
milana Posted:

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i know how you feel!! im sorry youre constantly fighting, i find myself arguing with my mom as well, its just a clash of different opinions and nastyness...unfortuntely weddings bring out the worst in people, including those closest to us as well.
dancerandchef Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear about this. Everything will be okay. My mom and I argue with each other too and then we appologize and make up. Here are some more hugs.

~dancer~
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Bride4Mike07 Posted:

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hope that makes you feel better....
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bettybcafe Posted:

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All you girls have put a great smile on my face. Thanks, I def. needed that. To give a little update..my mom came home but has been totally ignoring me....
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Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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Sorry!!
Mrs.NicolaXoXo Posted:

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I hope you feel better soon..we all have those days!
MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Millie, many !!!

I can TOTALLY relate to the latina mother, the arguing over silly things... honestly, when things get stressful, there are always arguments in my house!!! Oh, and the ignoring thing???? What, is it in their blood??? My mom is the SAME EXACT WAY. Then, later on or the next day, she starts talking to me like nothing happened! But, I love my mom and I know you love yours. I guess it's one of those things we have to deal with - as much as it annoys (and hurts) us!
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Posted by MrsQ-in2007

Millie, many !!!

I can TOTALLY relate to the latina mother, the arguing over silly things... honestly, when things get stressful, there are always arguments in my house!!! Oh, and the ignoring thing???? What, is it in their blood??? My mom is the SAME EXACT WAY. Then, later on or the next day, she starts talking to me like nothing happened! But, I love my mom and I know you love yours. I guess it's one of those things we have to deal with - as much as it annoys (and hurts) us!



Hey is my Momma related to your Mom
I swear you just described her to a T. Like ya'll said it must be in something in that Latin blood. GL sweetie
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Everything will work out

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