If we were married then I'd have one less stress in my life...between going to school, being primary caregiver to FSD, working, planning this wedding, dealing with my loopy FILs, being called out by crazy brides, my grandpa in the hospital (he'll be okay...but my parents are out of town so its kind of falling on me to take care of it)....the list goes on and on...I can't catch a break.
I feel crazy overwhelmed... Wish we were married so I would have one less thing.
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I feel your pain. In the last two weeks I have contemplated canceling my wedding because I just don't want to deal with the nonsense of family, in laws, work, school etc.... Hang in there the day will come and go soon enough and we will look back and wish we did not let all of the stress get to us during this time. Keep your chin up!
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Aww--just relax and things will work out. Don't let a couple of people on here stress you. Take a little break from wedding planning and focus on school--and of course some wine always helps!
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awww it's going to be ok! Just take one thing at a time, maybe put the wedding plans on the back burner for a couple of weeks while you deal w/ everything else.
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Ladies relax and please take a break from planning. I had to do that more than once. Stop listening to others and remember you are marry your best friend and you are each other rock. It's going to be okay.
Mrs Z To Be
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I agree.....SO many times I wish I could just cancel the whole thing....the planning is ont even enjoyable anymore!!! It is just stressful.
20mrsc10
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i knowwwwww to me its not even the stress most of the time..its the waiting!!
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I hear you! I had an all out panic attack over finding someone to print our invitations.
While our wedding is 4 months away -- the invitations are going out 1/2/10 -- which is NOT 4 months away... I forgot that.
Only one place was open on a Saturday... and we left calls with a bunch of others, but I was happy to hear from the place I did call she CAN print them in one day and on average needs about two weeks.
Oh... and we forgot to block hotel rooms...OOPS! So we're doing that during the week, somewhere in between my working 12 hour days. FML.
Sorry about grandpa , crazy in laws are a drag too! It'll all get better because eventually the wedding will be here.. and in the end that's just about you and FH.... nothing else will (or should) matter on that day.
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we are doing that. 42 more days. hows your gpa doing?
we are doing that. 42 more days. hows your gpa doing?
Its doing pretty well, I wish it were doing better...I have one class that is dragging everything down, but the problem is that I am a perfectionist...right now I'm running 2 As and a B...but because I'm a lunatic that B is really eating away at me.
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BIG HUGS ANNIVERSARY TWIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You're super strong and will get there!!! Maybe put some wedding planning on the back burner for a month or so -- like take the holidays off! You've already got so much done that it could be just the break you need!!
