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Can someone please educate me on the jewish religion regarding wedding showers

PapayaChic Posted:

Can someone please educate me on the jewish religion regarding wedding showers

There is this girl here getting married in 2 months
i want to throw her a small work shower

another coworker said the in the jewish religion, they dont do baby or bridal showers...

Is that true?
is even a work shower going to offend her?

thank you
cookiemonster Posted:

Re: Can someone please educate me on the jewish religion regarding wedding showers

Typically Jewish people don't do baby showers until after the baby is born - there are some long-standing superstitions about doing things before you are 100% sure the baby is going to be OK.

As for wedding showers, I'm not sure about ultra-religious Jews, but we've always done bridal showers with my family/friends. I'm a reform Jew, though - a conservative or orthodox bride or groom may want to weigh in on this one.
D's Girl Posted:

Re: Can someone please educate me on the jewish religion regarding wedding showers

Yes it is true, but it really depends on how religious she is.

qtdimps23 Posted:

Re: Can someone please educate me on the jewish religion regarding wedding showers


Posted by cookiemonster

Typically Jewish people don't do baby showers until after the baby is born - there are some long-standing superstitions about doing things before you are 100% sure the baby is going to be OK.

As for wedding showers, I'm not sure about ultra-religious Jews, but we've always done bridal showers with my family/friends. I'm a reform Jew, though - a conservative or orthodox bride or groom may want to weigh in on this one.



i agree with this. find out how religious she is. ive heard of no baby showers (even tho i want one ), but ive never heard of no bridal shower.
stealthgroom Posted:

Re: Can someone please educate me on the jewish religion regarding wedding showers

yeah, depends on how dedicated she is to her practice. Actually, I know some fairly involved Jews who have had bridal showers but would not have a baby shower.

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