Can someone read this and let me know what you would think if you got this email-VERY LONG!!

My friend wrote this email to her friend who is getting married and wants her & the sister to pay for the entire bridal shower. My freind does not make a lot of money and has tried to explain to her friend this but she really doesnt want to hear it I guess? She wrote this email and sent it to me first to see if it is rude. I dont think it is too rude but i wanted to get your opinions first. Thanks!!!

Hey Jess,
I hope you don't think I am being bitchy lately, but a lot is going on. I am totally willing to help out with the shower, but to be honest, I wasn't planning on it costing this much. We all know that right now money is tight. I am trying my best to help, but I feel as though I am coming short. I spoke to Steph last night. I told her that I probably wouldn't be able to come with all of the money last night. I got paid today and paid the bills I had to pay first like I do every paycheck. The money I was left with after everything was $200. I took $100 for you and I could take $40 from my savings leaving $26 in there. I know that scraping everything together, I can only bring $140 with me Saturday. I don't know if Steph expects me to bring more with me that day, but there is no way possible. I can send more money after I get paid June 1. I hope you don't think this is in any way fucked up of me, its just that I have been stressing on what to do and I can't give what I don't have. As it is, I now have $100 to spend till June 1 and thats before gas, tolls, and personal expenses.
I guess what I am trying to say here is that I wasn't expecting all of this at this time. I want you to be happy and have a great shower. I have never done anything like this and the showers I have gone to or heard about if the family doesn't throw it, then its the whole bridal party who chips in. I am in no way a cheap person at all, but I can't give what I don't have. I would give you the world if I could!! I hope you don't think I am being distant, but I am pretty stressed out right now. I know you are stressed as well! Its not easy to plan a wedding!
Jess, I love you to death and want you to be so happy so I hope this doesn't sound rude, I just don't know what else to say. I will definitely bring the $140 with me and when I get paid in 2 weeks I can send her a little more. I just hope you understand where I am coming from. It also hurts my feelings that when we speak on the phone you hardly ever ask how I am doing or whats going on in my life. I am sure it is because you have a lot on your mind, but it ***** that you don't know much about whats going on with me lately. I know you aren't doing on purpose but it still hurts. Please write back when you have a second.
I don't want you to get a bad vibe from this e-mail, I just need to get it all out!