Can we be honest for a minute?-Re: inviting ppl to wedding

nrvbrd Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:15 PM

Can we be honest for a minute?-Re: inviting ppl to wedding

Are there/were there people you invited to your wedding- that you really did not want to?

We have friends with significant others that I could od with out- those obligatory family friends I would rather not invite-
AHHHH

butterfly20 Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:35 PM

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there are 5 family that i could do without

KerrC Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:38 PM

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My parents are famous for that. My mother is the queen of 'well I was invited to their wedding'...in 1973!

alina Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:39 PM

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We probably invited a total of 20 people whom we didn't really care for, but had to invite... I don't think any of them are coming

Nikki10-12-03 Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:39 PM

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I have 2 people and said to say one of them is my mother

june262004 Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:41 PM

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Id rather not invite me FIL

shelzyp Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:42 PM

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My FSIL and her boyfriend!!!!!!!

swags1016 Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:44 PM

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99% of his family and my 2 uncles!

MrsTC Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:49 PM

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there are plenty!!

eroxgirl Posted: Jun 24, 2003 04:53 PM

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ABSOLUTELY!!! I can probably find 30 people on my list that I do not want at my wedding...and they're all on my mom's list and FMIL's list. And 1 on my dad's list. I don't understand why I need to invite people that I have never met or haven't seen in 10 years.

regina2 Posted: Jun 24, 2003 05:17 PM

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I have several cousins I would rather not invite and 10 of my fathers friends who I've never met...one on my FI friends who I dont like.....

I actually have to put people that I would like to come on a B List....my room only holds 150 (but if my father would not invite his friends - I would be fine and if FI would only invite his friends without guests - which is what I was planning on doing for my friends) This whole thing ****s!!!!!!!

NovBride Posted: Jun 24, 2003 07:41 PM

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How about this. My FFIL's second cousin's, children's, children.... Well that's about 4-6 I could do without.

OctBride05 Posted: Jun 24, 2003 08:10 PM

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yes, fsil and her husband.

yabbobay Posted: Jun 24, 2003 08:12 PM

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yes...its just something that you have to do...

HearzBellz Posted: Jun 24, 2003 08:31 PM

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not only do I have the Obligateds, but ...

ONE OF THEM IS IN MY WEDDING PARTY!

plus, I had to hear why FMIL's friends aren't invited.

Thank God that phase is over with

daisybride Posted: Jun 24, 2003 09:27 PM

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I'm beginning to wonder if there is anyone on this list that I want to invite. My mom and my FMIL both want to invite people they work with yet there is no room for me or my FI to invite our work buddies and we are paying. Something is wrong with this senario.

Helene718 Posted: Jun 24, 2003 09:28 PM

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Yes, we have a few of these.

aliciahelene Posted: Jun 25, 2003 10:16 AM

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We got lucky, we were originally going to elope and just invite the immediate family..but then we had a change of heart, but everyone knows we want to keep it very small, CLOSE family and friends and thats how its going to be, We are keeping it to about 80..so this way we will be celebrating with everyone who truly cares about us and loves us..I like the way its worked out because he and I both have a ton of relatives and it would get insane..