Im already buried in bills for this wedding. FH and I decided to buy a new TV instead of gifts for each other which is fine but that still leaves EVERYBODY ELSE.
OHHHH i'm feeling the same EXACT way...I've decided to not put up the christmas tree either. If i would've done that, i would get really sad and just heck with and start shopping for presents.
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I'm knee deep in bills this holiday season and FH and I also decided to buy ourselves something special (Wii) instead of gifts. I managed to get my family all something special (and not too expensive) that they'll appreciate and we're doing Secret Santa in FH's family so that saves us having to buy A LOT of presents. But I know how you feel. I'm still in the Christmas spirit but I wish I had more money so I could splurge on gifts for people.
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I hear that!!! I'm sooooo stressed out! I was going over bills the other night and almost jumped out the window!!
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We have $89 in our account and still have to get about $500 worth of gifts, I can't wait till this is over - I usually love xmas but saving for a house, a wedding and xmas gifts is killing me i really could use a relaxer right about now. and FMIL doesn't seem to care to much that we are trying to save she is very much about the gifts
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I feel like SUCH a Scrooge this year. We spent so much money since we just moved Dec 1st. When I look at my bank account I want to throw up!
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We have $89 in our account and still have to get about $500 worth of gifts, I can't wait till this is over - I usually love xmas but saving for a house, a wedding and xmas gifts is killing me i really could use a relaxer right about now. and FMIL doesn't seem to care to much that we are trying to save she is very much about the gifts
My FMIL sent me a list of things she wants...who does that!
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Totally trying to even avoid going x-mas shopping at all for anyone! I know i HAVE to buy certain people something... like my mom and brothers and grandmother... but I really don't want to because we NEED to save all we can save! Usually I'm done shopping by now but this year I just wish we could skip it for money reasons!
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I know exactly how everyone feels. Between saving for our wedding and the economy being as sh**ty as it is right now, FH and I decided to give just one gift to one another. My parents and brother all agreed that we should all go light... I have to say I am looking forward to putting up the tree and decorating the house :)
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I am just not into Christmas at all this year. I still don't even have a tree! I started decorating after Thanksgiving and just stopped halfway through.....
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thank god im not alone. I love love love x-mas. Its my favorite time of year but its true. With everything going on with the economy too it just seems like this year is such a downer.
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I feel the same way. There's bills and then some health issues I'm trying to deal with. So not in a Christmas spirt kinda mood.
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We have $89 in our account and still have to get about $500 worth of gifts, I can't wait till this is over - I usually love xmas but saving for a house, a wedding and xmas gifts is killing me i really could use a relaxer right about now. and FMIL doesn't seem to care to much that we are trying to save she is very much about the gifts
My FMIL sent me a list of things she wants...who does that!
Ours Does!!!!
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I was just saying at work yesterday that I really love xmas time, all the decorations and the music and just the overall feel....its just the large sums of money being spent that i dont like!
ugh i'm with you on skipping xmas. I told my family I'm only buying gifts for the little ones -- but thats still like 10 kids. FH and me decided to buy a new digital camera as a gift to each other so we can have a new toy to play with.
I think I'm just gonna bake for the rest of the family, they can enjoy some yummy cookies and pies on xmas -- that's my gift this year
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I dont even really celebrate xmas, but I do buy gifts for my immediate family. This year because of wedding expenses I'm only buy for my nephew and younger brother.
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i feel the SAME WAY
with the bills for the new condo and bills for the wedding i am BROKE and i am SO NERVOUS about spending MORE on gifts!
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nope you're def not the only one, we're getting each other the TV stand for the TV lol