I want my best friend & my mom wants me to have my cousin, so can I have two?
FutureJOC
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I have 2. My two best friends, 1 is already married and she will be my Matron of Honor and my other best friend who is not yet married with be my Maid of Honor.
springsandra
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Of course you can have two! But is there a particular reason your mom wouldn't be cool with your cousin being a bridesmaid? You should want them both as your MOHs if that's what you choose to do, not do it because your mom says so. How big is your BP going to be otherwise?
Mommy2BeBride
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Posted by springsandra
Of course you can have two! But is there a particular reason your mom wouldn't be cool with your cousin being a bridesmaid? You should want them both as your MOHs if that's what you choose to do, not do it because your mom says so. How big is your BP going to be otherwise?
My mom goes to the tradition, whoever your maid of honor is, she will be the god mother of your first child and my mom feels it should be a relative and not a friend.
And as for the rest of my bridal party, I have 3-4 bridemaids and 1 junior bridesmaid. The reason I say 3-4 is because one friend lives in South Carolina and she may not be albe to afford to be in it.
Why would it have to be a family member and not a friend? Sometimes friends are better 'family' to you than those who actually are your family.
Mommy2BeBride
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Posted by Marianne13
It's your wedding.. You can do whatever you want!
Why would it have to be a family member and not a friend? Sometimes friends are better 'family' to you than those who actually are your family.
honestly you are very right. :0)
allsmiles830
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You can do whatever you want!!!
Lsorrent
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Sure you can. I have a maid and a matron of honor.....both my sisters, because I refused to choose.
DanielleMF
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Of course- It is your wedding, you can have whatever you want.
Mommy2BeBride
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Sure you can. I have a maid and a matron of honor.....both my sisters, because I refused to choose.
but matron of honor is only when they are married right? because both of my girls are not married.
FutureJOC
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Posted by Marianne13
It's your wedding.. You can do whatever you want!
Why would it have to be a family member and not a friend? Sometimes friends are better 'family' to you than those who actually are your family.
couldn't agree more!
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Sure you can. I have a maid and a matron of honor.....both my sisters, because I refused to choose.
but matron of honor is only when they are married right? because both of my girls are not married.
Yes, one is married, the other is not. But if my one sister wasn't married, they'd still both be my maids of honor.
FutureJOC
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Posted by xOLiLStiNA
Posted by Lsorrent
Sure you can. I have a maid and a matron of honor.....both my sisters, because I refused to choose.
but matron of honor is only when they are married right? because both of my girls are not married.
yes Matron refers to those who are married. But it's no problem to have them both as Maids.
Mommy2BeBride
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thank you girls.. this really helps alot! :0)
DaniandKen2010
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I have 2 because I wouldn't chose between my 2 best friends and they are more family to me than some of my real family are .
Tracey1979
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I have 2 - both my sisters
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Posted by jilliibabii
Absolutely. You can have 10 if you really wanted.
yep ita
drivwal
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I have two as well!! Both of my sisters are my maids of honor because I could not pick one over the other. You can do whatever you want, its your wedding there are no real rules with something like this.
