Cancel hall 3 months before the wedding

Original post by gabandcarl

Mar 26, 2009 07:38 AM

So my dad who is paying for the entire wedding got laid off yesterday. This happened a few months ago but he found a job pretty quickly. Now Im not so sure that he will find something as quickly and the wedding is in 3 months. I feel like i should cancel but ill lose all the deposits so far. I cant afford the wedding and i cant ask my parents to help based on their situation. Any suggestions? I really dont want to cancel but i dont have any other choice.

MsPotterhead Posted: Mar 27, 2009 12:32 AM

Re: Cancel hall 3 months before the wedding

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this!
I have nothing to say that the girls didn't already say. I hear you about wanting to get married already. Ask them if they could lower the pp amount and/or your minimum. Also, I agree with trying for a daytime or maybe even a Thursday night to lower costs. Try to deal with ToniAnn if you can, she is very sweet and understanding. I had some stuff going on at the beginning of my process, and she was very good with me.
If you have any extras, get rid of them - the Thatched Cottage was so amazing you don't need any extras.
Good luck!