Can't hold it in....

In one swift unprotected swoop my stupid sister who I put in the wedding only because my other sister was desperate to be in it and I didn't want to leave one out, is pregnant. AGAIN. This makes 4 and she's 33 right now.

I know I shouldn't even complain about a new niece/nephew, but I can't help it. It's her 4th and she couldn't wait a while? It's unplanned because she's not careful about bc, she wants to be a baby factory and honestly doesn't care. Her DH only wanted 1 but hey he knows what to do to prevent it if he wants to.

This move takes out 2 flower girls, one ring bearer and a bridesmaid. The baby is due in April and I don't know if she should bring a 2 month old on a 7-8 hour flight just to go to bed when dinner will be served??

Ugh close your legs!!!

Sorry, I kinda feel bridezillaish

OMG I am so sorry girl...

=(

Wow...



I think that would NOT be convinient... but i dunno...

haha its ok dont be bridezilla-ish
id feel the same way

just breathe

be like me tonight
have a biggggg glass of your fav alcohol and breathe

thats not bridezillaish! ummm, your sister is now prob going to miss your wedding along with your nieces and nephews!!!!!!!

i'm so sorry B!

So sorry B! That stinks. I wish I could make you smile right now. Well maybe tomorrow I can

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Posted by J79

thats not bridezillaish! ummm, your sister is now prob going to miss your wedding along with your nieces and nephews!!!!!!!

i'm so sorry B!

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ITa...
they will jhave to miss it...

BUT they are in the BP rigt?!!!!!!!!!!

So.. U got to get new ppl?!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

So sorry B! That stinks. I wish I could make you smile right now. Well maybe tomorrow I can

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S will ride the bull in a string bikini!!!!

did you smile??? a lil???

can you BIL still bring your other nieces and newphews if your sisster does not want to come to the wedding?
either way, it would be up to her if she would want to bring the new baby to the wedding
i'm sorry

Thanks guys, and yes Jenn, that did make me smile

BIL was never coming anyway because he is a teacher and couldn't get out of school stuff. Besides that my sister and her husband often vacation separately to get away from each other (not even kidding) so she wanted to come over with just the kids. My parents have suggested that they bring over the two oldest kids because they are dying to come, but my sister wants to bring all four of them (including the new baby). My mum is NOT happy about that because she doesn't want to be stuck looking after 4 kids, she wants to drink and dance.

Ugh too much drama, plus she is never going to fit into her BM dress which I already have because they came in super quickly. I am going to have to find a new BM I think.

Reason number 3,213,512 why we should just elope and say F it!

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Posted by bethie853

Thanks guys, and yes Jenn, that did make me smile

BIL was never coming anyway because he is a teacher and couldn't get out of school stuff. Besides that my sister and her husband often vacation separately to get away from each other (not even kidding) so she wanted to come over with just the kids. My parents have suggested that they bring over the two oldest kids because they are dying to come, but my sister wants to bring all four of them (including the new baby). My mum is NOT happy about that because she doesn't want to be stuck looking after 4 kids, she wants to drink and dance.

Ugh too much drama, plus she is never going to fit into her BM dress which I already have because they came in super quickly. I am going to have to find a new BM I think.

Reason number 3,213,512 why we should just elope and say F it!

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ok, how can i help? do you want me to be a BM or babysitter???

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Posted by J79

ok, how can i help? do you want me to be a BM or babysitter???

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Lol you my love, would not fit the dress, or at least it would have to be altered to beyond recognition.

And I thought about the babysitter, but the kids aren't good with strangers

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Posted by J79

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Posted by bethie853

Thanks guys, and yes Jenn, that did make me smile

BIL was never coming anyway because he is a teacher and couldn't get out of school stuff. Besides that my sister and her husband often vacation separately to get away from each other (not even kidding) so she wanted to come over with just the kids. My parents have suggested that they bring over the two oldest kids because they are dying to come, but my sister wants to bring all four of them (including the new baby). My mum is NOT happy about that because she doesn't want to be stuck looking after 4 kids, she wants to drink and dance.

Ugh too much drama, plus she is never going to fit into her BM dress which I already have because they came in super quickly. I am going to have to find a new BM I think.

Reason number 3,213,512 why we should just elope and say F it!

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ok, how can i help? do you want me to be a BM or babysitter???

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I will help too! What do you need??

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Posted by bethie853

I hope she's having twins/triplets/quads/quints to make it worthwhile.

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thats the spirit!

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Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

I will help too! What do you need??

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I think I need a flipping cork of some kind at this point

I'm totally open on 7/3/11, how about Suzie, Jenn, and I are ur BMs, 3 for the prize of 1...such good friends we r...I'm tellin' ya!!!!