Can't Stand GM

Can't Stand GM

Ok, I need to vent because my FH's roommate, and one of our GMs is such an @ S S H O L E. FH is three years younger than I am, but I never notice it except for this one friend of his. He like 'punishes' FH by not talking to him when I am around. When I come over I could go a whole week without seeing him in the house, he never comes down to say 'hello' or anything. Now I am well aware he has major issues, and it shouldn't bother me, but it is almost as if he communicates 'it is either her or me'. He is planning on moving out in June - thank the lord! - because I could not live here with him. And last night we found out he knew for months that one of FH's friends is having a baby and he never told FH. He is such a baby. It is almost as if he wants to show FH that because of me he is now out of the loop. I live four and a half hours away, we only see one another every other weekend,... he has all of those other days to spend time with FH - why be a baby about four days of the month???? In all honesty, I think he may really LOVE FH, because that would explain his behavior. UGHHHH! Ok... I vented. So sorry.

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y is he even a gm if he dosnt approve of the two of you. So y do he think he dosnt like you, because u are taking his friend away from him or does he have other reasons?

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Yikes!!!! And boys say that girls a crazy! I know its annoying but just be happy he is moving out in June. If he keeps this up maybe you have to re-evaluate his invoement in the wedding

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Ugh...that sounds like a very frustrating situation. I bet he is just jealous that FH has somebody else 'taking up his time' (even though you are not near him!) or filling the best friend spot that he might have once filled. Have you and FH talked about it? (i might have miss that part of the original post lol) What does he thikn?

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I think that can be the only reason, since I never even get a chance to talk to him. His other friends just say 'He is weird' or 'That's just him', but the friend who is moving in with us to take his place said, there is no way you could have lived with him - so even she knows he is socially awkward. He also got a DWI and still drives drunk. I really want to call the cops on him one night! The reason why he is a GM is because he's one of FH's best friends. FH agrees that he is socially awkward and rude, but he says he has been his whole time of knowing him. Which I can't see as being a good excuse. I just fear he is going to be a drunken @ S S H O L E at the wedding. He likes to be the center of attention, so I could totally see him making a scene. I just wish he hated me enough that he wouldn't come to the wedding, but he's too stubborn to do that.

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That would bother me too. Good thing is he moving out soon and you won't have to deal with his immature behavior anymore. Tell him to stop being the single white female character LOL..

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what a jerk - i would try and flip the script tho - why not be his BFF? call just to say hi and be overly nice? That might drive him out sooner, or worst case scenerio make him change his tune about you

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To him... no - even FH knows it won't do any good - GM is very stubborn and pigheaded and will just make things worse... I have to admit I am lucky though - their old roommate's FW was totally b*tched out by him to the point where he said she is never allowed in the house again and she was in tears... that roommate tried talking to him to no avail. I know that once he moves FH and GM will not be as close. I guess I just have to be patient. Even last night all of their friends were saying that GM's new roommates, who are his good friends, are not going to like living with him because he is such an @ s s. I just hate the fact that he's part of our wedding party. When FH asked him he was like, of course I'm in your wedding... not even grateful or anything... UGHHH

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I can't believe he did that to her. I hope that they don't talk to him anymore.

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sorry to hear this- tell him to frow up!!

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I know the feeling! Fhs Best friend and I did not get along at all at first. He did alot of messed up things and caused alot of fights between FH and I. He happens to be the BM I knwo crazy! He has actually been trying to be nice lately, maybe he finally realizes that im not going anywhere, he can either deal with it and be nice to BOTH of us or he can cause his friendship to drift apart. I would never flat out tell FH he couldnt be friends with him but I know eventually the friendship would have drifted apart. Maybe give it some time, he might come around eventually...but still thank god you dont have to live with him phewww...that culd have gotten messy

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Oh, that was the other thing I hate about him --- he went out of his way to try and break us up last year... he is super annoying!

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Posted by Soon-to-be-Moore

Oh, that was the other thing I hate about him --- he went out of his way to try and break us up last year... he is super annoying!

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This guy sounds like he might show up to your wedding in a bridal gown and try to marry your FH

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That's so annoying!! At least he is moving out soon. Why does he treat you that way??? So weird.

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Jeez. He sure sounds like a real woman. I'm sorry you have to deal with him. At least June is really close by. In the meantime, I'd just ignore him as best you can and eventually FH will catch on to the behavior. Chances are when he moves out if he's still giving FH the silent treatment because you're around, you won't have to deal with him at all!