Can't we all just get along?

Original post by geegee827

Feb 25, 2009 02:55 PM

I am sorry if my FMIL vent caused drama.

What I am angry about has apparently caused a $h1tstorm.

I didn't want my post to turn into this. I apologize to those who have gotten upset about it and thank those who saw my side of things.

KerriJohnS Posted: Feb 25, 2009 07:32 PM

Re: Can't we all just get along?

I'm sorry if I started any drama with the NW comment. I just couldn't keep my mouth shut anymore about it... especially after all that other crap that just RECENTLY went on.

I'm not here to cause drama or anything like that.. and I don't want you guys to think that either.

KerriJohnS Posted: Feb 25, 2009 07:33 PM

Re: Can't we all just get along?

Posted by NikkiR515

You definitely should not apologize!!!! I don't know what is going on lately but it seems people are quick to jump down each others throats for having an opinion.. Honestly, it is making me think I shouldn't post on here so much.. Regardless, you feel the way you do and you have the right to feel that way! You should never apologize for the way you feel... We are all here because we have one huge thing in common.. We are lucky enough to be marrying the people we love VERY much and we should always support each other no matter what the issue is!

ITA Nikki!

xosweetiexo Posted: Feb 25, 2009 07:34 PM

Re: Can't we all just get along?

Posted by KerriJohnS

Posted by NikkiR515

You definitely should not apologize!!!! I don't know what is going on lately but it seems people are quick to jump down each others throats for having an opinion.. Honestly, it is making me think I shouldn't post on here so much.. Regardless, you feel the way you do and you have the right to feel that way! You should never apologize for the way you feel... We are all here because we have one huge thing in common.. We are lucky enough to be marrying the people we love VERY much and we should always support each other no matter what the issue is!

ITA Nikki!

Well said!!!

coldasice217 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 07:41 PM

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I just read through everything too, and I've very sorry that it turned into that this morning.

If anyone has any background in psych, there's something called projecting. Lest another sh!tstorm be stirred, I'll leave it at that.

Do not for one moment apologize or think that you did anything wrong. As much as we always wax poetic about how great it is, and how much we all love our girls, etc...at the end of the day, this is what happens when there's a bunch of women together. Women do not like other women...and will always hate on someone who sticks their head above the pack. It's sad, but fundamentally, it's true.

Just rise above it and know that you didn't do anything wrong by voicing your honest opinion and feelings. If someone really didn't like it, they should have clicked on to the next post rather than say something hateful.

jennaandguy09 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 07:45 PM

Re: Can't we all just get along?

Posted by gina409

i agree..but what do i know im just the minnie mouse
h ewa

What does that mean?? I'm so outta the loop!!!!!! I tried to say it out loud and my parents heard me and asked if I was retarted!!!! THANKS!!!!

gina409 Posted: Feb 25, 2009 07:52 PM

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Posted by jennaandguy09

Posted by gina409

i agree..but what do i know im just the minnie mouse
h ewa

What does that mean?? I'm so outta the loop!!!!!! I tried to say it out loud and my parents heard me and asked if I was retarted!!!! THANKS!!!!

oh it was something from a drama i got in last week...no big thing i was just trying to cheer her up

squeekietoy Posted: Feb 25, 2009 08:10 PM

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Posted by coldasice217

As much as we always wax poetic about how great it is, and how much we all love our girls, etc...at the end of the day, this is what happens when there's a bunch of women together. Women do not like other women...and will always hate on someone who sticks their head above the pack. It's sad, but fundamentally, it's true.

ITA. You can't expect THIS many females to be in one place and be nice to eachother all the time. It's not going to happen. People have differing opinions, tempers flare, shi!t happens.