Im in the process of changing careers now. for a 2nd and last time !
I started out in retail. (1995) Went to F.I.T., got a Bachelors in Marketing/Management. Worked as an Assistant Buyer for 2 stores. Loved it. But started to hate the trend of cold personalities and phonies in the field.
I should have known on my first day of college, at 17, (1991) when my Professor went around the room asking us how many children we wanted to have. Everyone said 'one' 'two' or 'none' and I said 'six'
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As much as I am very ambitious and goal-oriented career-wise, I have always felt in my heart that devoting time to family would always be a priority for me. But since I wasnt even in a relationship at the time, it didnt really hit me that it might be a little bit of an issue to be ambitious and 'successful' at both a 'buying' career and a family, and I thought I could have the best of both worlds. Why not ?
Well it was a blessing in disguise that I picked up and left retail without even having found another job. (1998) I found a job within about 6 weeks. It was in the computer field. I LOVEDDDD it, loved the environment, loved the growth potential, I was learning by leaps and bounds, new challenges and new accomplishments every day, and uhmm, loved the money !
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All the while, I had started going for a Masters Degree in Education (1997). Even before I had left retail. I just wanted to get this Masters Degree and teaching was always in the back of my mind.
I started the degree and stopped midway (well less than midway)... (1999) I was in a great spot at work, progressing nicely and really didnt feel 'up to' taking such a huge pay cut, and being put into any school in any borough...ok, kinda selfish...
Fast forward to the next year (2000), my life took a turn. Got engaged, got married, moved to Suffolk and decided to leave my job
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because the commute was just too much (white plains).
I had a few good jobs out here, all temp or consultant basis. The last time I got laid off, I just took it as a sign that it was another crossroad in life and shortly (2months) thereafter became pregnant...
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Now my priorites are REALLY starting to shift !
I have been 'home' for the past year, and have come to the decision, that I am finally following my dreams to teach. I am now enrolled in grad school, while I am home with my son. I am very excited to be making this career change. I cant wait till the day that I step foot into a classroom, and I can teach a child something new.
I have worked with children in several volunteer organizations, and the most memorable and worthwhile times in my life we those spent with children, where the simple act of 'being there' made a difference in their lives. (Ok, one tangent please ?? I'll be quick. One program I Was part of at VSC (VOlunteer Services for children) was their Saturday Outing program where we took kids that were either orphaned or had parents in jail, we took them to zoos, the beach, parks, etc etc. Well one tall kid, Brian, he was 13, I was 18. At the beach, he bought me a pencil !! I could have cried. Also he wanted soo badly to be able to call me when he needed someone to talk to. He was in different foster homes very often and was scared and lonely. our strict rules were to NOT have any contact with these children besides on VSC outings. I had to tell him no and see the hurt in his eyes. It brought tears to my eyes on the way home that day to think that some kids out there, as we speak are in a lonely, cold world.....and all that would make them happy is someone to talk to...someone who would understand them and listen....
I know that teachers make a difference, because there are some teachers of mine, that I 'quote' to this day and that I think of sooo fondly... even when I see them, it brings a smile to my face. To think that I can make a difference inthe life of one child, maybe make someone love books, or follow their dreams, is what pulls me to get pursue this...
Sorry, I think I went over the word limit again..
Sorry for any typos, getting very tired
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