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Catholic girls- How many of you are not doing a full mass?

cc2011 Posted:

Catholic girls- How many of you are not doing a full mass?

My mom is giving me hellll since me and FH changed it and decided not to do the full mass. I feel like doing something wrong....I wish I would have kept my mouth shut!

leesah85 Posted:

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im not doing a full mass

my parents gave me h e l l too, but logistically it didnt work with our timeline to do a full mass and FH REALLY did not want one
cc2011 Posted:

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Posted by leesah85

im not doing a full mass

my parents gave me h e l l too, but logistically it didnt work with our timeline to do a full mass and FH REALLY did not want one


She's making me feel like I'm gonna burn in hellll. lol. We changed it for that exact reason. If we did the full mass there would be no way to go to Brooklyn for pics/video.
leesah85 Posted:

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Posted by cc2011

Posted by leesah85

im not doing a full mass

my parents gave me h e l l too, but logistically it didnt work with our timeline to do a full mass and FH REALLY did not want one


She's making me feel like I'm gonna burn in hellll. lol. We changed it for that exact reason. If we did the full mass there would be no way to go to Brooklyn for pics/video.


my parents didnt have a full mass yet they tried to give me guilt about not having one

my defense was, if i would have picked the cheaper day to have teh reception (sunday), i wouldnt have been able to do a full mass, so im not jeopardizing my timeline for somethign i dont really care about one way or the other
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Hope your mom changes her opinion since it is what you and FH want. I am doing a full mass but it's what we want.

Angel120905 Posted:

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Not doing a mass either we are getting married at 430 on a friday. Many people are coming to the ceremony straight from work and ch is at 730 so we wanted to give people plenty of time to get ready and feel like they were running around

Thar1127 Posted:

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Not doing a full mass here either, didnt really fit in the timeline and FH family is not catholic so didnt want them to have feel uncomfortable...

raquel37 Posted:

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im not doing full mass...want to be able to take pics and hopefully be at CH

merelynn10 Posted:

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i didnt do a full mass

IrishAli Posted:

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We didn't

DH wasn't raised Catholic.....so that was the best solution
Yankeeelove Posted:

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I'm not doing a full mass, luckily my family doesn't mind. I just honestly cannot subject my friends and family to sit there for that long and be bored lol. I went to a wedding mass last year and it was an hour and a half long Too long!
sujeire Posted:

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I didn't do a full Mass.

CroatianBride Posted:

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I wish we weren't doing a full mass....but FH and his family are insisting
Moonmist09 Posted:

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i really didn't want a full mas but DH did.
IMO, the day of, my actual wedding day, even though it wa smy wedding reception, i was actually thinking that this ish is way too long.
it really was and it would have been so much better to do just a simple ceremony.
go for it, don't let her make you feel bad!
chris1082 Posted:

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We are't doing a full mass--even though my parents are pretty religious, they were 100% ok with what we wanted. My older brother didn't get married in a church, so I know they are hapoy that I am.

I know that FH's parents and grandparents weren't thrilled with the decision, but I was adamant about not having a full mass. Even the ceremony is too long in my mind
BigDsGirl Posted:

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I am. But mostly for my grams and his Mom. If not I would have done a simple ceremony. I know people are prolly gnna get bored but ah well lol.

VCanizalez Posted:

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So Sorry about your mom....
We are doing the full mass (Communion only to me and FH though)

I could not imagine not doing it...


But hope everything gets better with ur mom and she udnerstands the reason as of why ur not doing it =-)
KrisBren2011 Posted:

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I'm not doing a full mass.

HSsweethearts Posted:

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If my DH weren't Jewish I definitely would have done a full mass. It's very important. The priest who officiated our wedding does not allow a ceremony if both partners are Catholic.

dCa51899 Posted:

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Posted by Yankeeelove

I'm not doing a full mass, luckily my family doesn't mind. I just honestly cannot subject my friends and family to sit there for that long and be bored lol. I went to a wedding mass last year and it was an hour and a half long Too long!


same here

not doing a full mass, i think they're soooo long...although my friend had one a few months ago that moved along pretty quickly and it was really nice

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