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Catholic Wedding Reader Questions

TeAmoChris Posted:

Catholic Wedding Reader Questions

Does anyone know if the readers during the ceremony HAVE to be Catholic too? One of the girls I want to do a reading is Jewish, do you think they will tell me no? FH thinks our church might??

Soon2BMIL Posted:

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I don't think they will ask if she is Catholic of not and why even bring up the subject. When they ask if you have readers just answer yes. If she is willing to do the reading - let her.

lisam1113 Posted:

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Posted by Soon2BMIL

I don't think they will ask if she is Catholic of not and why even bring up the subject. When they ask if you have readers just answer yes. If she is willing to do the reading - let her.



ITA!
FutureJOC Posted:

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Posted by Soon2BMIL

I don't think they will ask if she is Catholic of not and why even bring up the subject. When they ask if you have readers just answer yes. If she is willing to do the reading - let her.



agreed. I don't think it should be a problem either way.
Lsorrent Posted:

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They don't have to be Catholic. Two of our readers were Episcopal.

Moonmist09 Posted:

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no, it doesn't have to be anyone who is Catholic. they don't ask anything of the readers except to just read a few short sentences,.

halfbaked Posted:

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I've heard of churches asking, but I wouldn't even dignify the question with an answer. That's information they don't need. My Aunt is not a practicing Catholic and she was a reader for me.

JAAMS Posted:

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An Episcopalian reverend did one of our readings and DH's Grandfather did another. DH's grandfather is Methodist, and our Church had no problem with that. We also had our parents bring up the gifts during communion...my Dad is Christian Science, my Mom is Roman Catholic, MIL is Jewish, and FIL is Methodist...so I think it should be fine!

Katswedding11 Posted:

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i wouldnt worry about it.

CantWaitMrsH Posted:

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They do not ... but you should pick the Old Testament reading if someone is Jewish

deeda1129 Posted:

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Posted by Soon2BMIL

I don't think they will ask if she is Catholic of not and why even bring up the subject. When they ask if you have readers just answer yes. If she is willing to do the reading - let her.



agree!
TeAmoChris Posted:

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Posted by CantWaitMrsH

They do not ... but you should pick the Old Testament reading if someone is Jewish



thats exactly what i was thinking if they give me some push back since my church happens to be a little on the stricter side. I just didnt think it would even be a concern.
Christine27 Posted:

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Someone asked this question when I was at pre-cana and the woman said just not to mention it and it'll be fine. I think technically they have to be but you don't have to tell your church.

HSsweethearts Posted:

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Posted by CantWaitMrsH

They do not ... but you should pick the Old Testament reading if someone is Jewish[/QUOTE

ITA!


ETA: They want the person proclaiming the word of god to be someone who believes in it. This should not be a problem as long as the jewish person does the 1st reading or psalm
ChristineNorah Posted:

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Posted by Soon2BMIL

I don't think they will ask if she is Catholic of not and why even bring up the subject. When they ask if you have readers just answer yes. If she is willing to do the reading - let her.



This.
VCanizalez Posted:

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Dont worry about it....
The dont need to be catholic....
But my readers are active catholic.. i want it to be catholic...

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